I sail both with my family and solo. When I’m solo, I don’t attend meetups or anything of that sort. I’m chatty though, and will strike up a conversation at the bar or around the ship. I like that it can be on my terms and I can bow out when I’ve had enough company. I did make a very nice friend on one cruise, and have been casually absorbed by groups of nice women on a couple of occasions. Did have one fella end up being a Stage 5 clinger, which wore me the heck out. He couldn’t take a clue!
For the most part, you’ll find me tucked away in quiet spaces with a Coke Zero in one hand and my Kindle in the other!