I have been married to the best husband in the world for 36 years. We love dressing up for each other for "date night". Neither of us would be caught dead going to a nice resturant in clothing that was made for the pool side. Also, we brush our teeth, comb our hair and I put make-up on. I want my DH to feel good walking by my side. By the way, we also raised our 5 kids (all grown now) that there is a place to dress down and it's not at a nice resturant, weddings or church.