I would recommend the Gem also. We've been on the Gem multiple times out of NYC and on the Getaway once (soon to be twice, but only because we wanted the itinerary). I wanted to like the Getaway better, but I don't. I love the Haven on the Gem, even though there is no dedicated Haven restaurant, you can enjoy a leisurely breakfast or lunch by an uncrowded pool or you can eat in a restaurant that has been dedicated to Haven breakfasts/lunches (not dinners). Overall its small, quiet and very enjoyable. Go with the Gem and see!!!!