I am heartbroken, last January I was solo in a balcony suite for my 49th birthday while on that cruise I booked a solo, forward facing penthouse w/balcony in the haven for my 50th birthday. Since then I have started dating a woman 34 w/ a 8y/o, I recently expressed to her that I can pay a bit more to bring her and Lucas on this sailing since I have already paid double occupancy it would not be a problem. Her response was "I can't take the time off work and Lucas has school." Now this was going to be my first time in the haven and my first platinum cruise (I was really really looking forward to this.) I cancelled it just now. I'm getting all $11,842.77 back because Sept. 19th is the 120 day cut off date, and this is prior. Am I an bad guy for thinking I'm gonna break up with them and enjoy my 10 day Bermuda/Caribbean birthday cruise.
Once again this will be my first platinum and haven cruise. We have been dating for 4&1/2 months. I do not know what to do, she will never see this post as she is not on this social media. I have already canceled this cruise, but can most likely rebook at any time. Rant off*