Ok, so my husband doesn't want to dress up... at all. I'm lucky if he'll wear jeans or cargo pants instead of shorts. If you're wondering why Cunard... well, we didn't realize this when we booked. He doesn't own a suit, or a tux, and refuses to wear one on a vacation (he's a physician and doesn't take many vacations, so I'm giving in). So, do we need to eat every evening meal (QV2, Fjords itinerary) at the buffet, or are there other eateries we can go to? Does the food in the buffet include the highlights from the dining room? Can we still attend any of the shows or anything else, like the casino? We don't dance (or drink), but like theatrical shows, etc. What are we really missing? Thank you! We promise not to walk anywhere we're not welcome -- I will be the woman in a cute dress with the guy in jeans :).