Rare Tapi Posted January 13, 2013 #26 Share Posted January 13, 2013 (edited) Congratulations! We also tried for years and we finally had our first son in 2009. I don't blame you for bein cautious. We were too! We didn't want to go too far away for fears of anything going wrong. Even after our son was born, we were deathly afraid to take him on a cruise because of all the "what ifs". When we finally cruised, we drove to the closest port and took a quick cruise to the Bahamas and Key West. We worried about going to ports too far off the beaten path. We now have a daughter who was born on Feb 2012. We actually dropped our fears and cruised when my wife was just shy of 24 weeks of pregnancy with her and didn't worry. We are now planning our daugter's 1st cruise (to Alaska) so we've come a long way. :) Enjoy this amazing time and cherish every moment of it! It's truly a wonderful experience! :) Edited January 13, 2013 by Tapi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvtovaca Posted January 13, 2013 #27 Share Posted January 13, 2013 I don't even know you and am so happy for your very obvious excitement! Congratulations!!:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UATLB Posted January 13, 2013 #28 Share Posted January 13, 2013 congrats!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rowan555 Posted January 13, 2013 #29 Share Posted January 13, 2013 We had a cruise booked in 1999 that we ended up cancelling because I was pregnant - and I'm really glad we did - I ended up having some minor complications which required me to be close to the labor and delivery department throughout my pregnancy! Take heart, though, once your child turns 2, it's Camp Carnival time!!! :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LoveMyBoxer Posted January 13, 2013 #30 Share Posted January 13, 2013 Congratulations!!! That is better than any cruise!:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kireelady Posted January 13, 2013 #31 Share Posted January 13, 2013 I was recently in the same position. Tried to get pregnant for 4 years and we finally did back in April. We had a cruise booked for last December and the cancel/change fee was $50pp. Not bad. Congratulations!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Island Hopper58 Posted January 13, 2013 #32 Share Posted January 13, 2013 (edited) Such exciting news. Congratulations are in order for sure :D It always seems like when you stop trying and wondering "If", is when something happens. Talking a cruise later, with a baby and if you are smart and have enough $$$ a gramma. You will have a great time. I know some think taking a little one is silly, but going on vacation with out your little one is silly to me. We went with our 8 month old and I know that was easier than taking a 3 yr old or a teen :D (no way am I leaving my little one with strangers, not even the wonderful Carnival ones) Having Gramma on the cruise was the key to making it a great cruise. She loves being with the baby, and the parents get a few special moments (hours) to relax. What ever you do, what ever you decide...only the two of you and the Dr. can know what is best. Congratulations again... Edited January 13, 2013 by Island Hopper58 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittycrusin08 Posted January 13, 2013 #33 Share Posted January 13, 2013 The best to you and your wife. Grandaughter & her husband are not sailing with us in March for the same reason. Lots of cruises in the future with the anticipated little one. Sail out of Florida and you can do Disney World, too. When baby arrives, please make an announcement on here. Good news always makes us smile. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattp420 Posted January 13, 2013 Author #34 Share Posted January 13, 2013 Op - I wish you and your DW all the best. Everyone is different but isn't it a little early to be sharing this good news especially after your long wait? I am not being nasty but each pregnancy is long and drawn out ( unless you are on "I didn't know I was pregnant":D). I expect negative comments for saying this but please believe me that announcing very early only increases outside pressures. Perhaps I am way off and you are only using the anonymity of CC to discuss this. If so, good! Good luck. I really only posted this because I was wondering about the cancellation. Guess part of me did want to tell some people too! :D We're trying not to let anyone know until we're a little further down the road as we have had such a difficult time. I have to say...everyone's reaction and kind words has really made our day. Thank you all so much!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riclop Posted January 13, 2013 #35 Share Posted January 13, 2013 After 15 years of trying my wife is pregnant!!!! We are so happy I can't even express but.....we have a cruise booked in June. She's going to be right up against the 24 week cutoff for pregnant women. We really don't want to risk anything happening regardless of whether she's over the limit or not...it's been such a long hard struggle we are not into taking any risks. We booked Early Saver so should I just expect to eat the $500 deposit or can it be used for a rescheduled cruise...maybe next year? Give Khloe Kardashian some tips. Congrats. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lorijeannj Posted January 13, 2013 #36 Share Posted January 13, 2013 After 15 years of trying my wife is pregnant!!!! We are so happy I can't even express but.....we have a cruise booked in June. She's going to be right up against the 24 week cutoff for pregnant women. We really don't want to risk anything happening regardless of whether she's over the limit or not...it's been such a long hard struggle we are not into taking any risks. We booked Early Saver so should I just expect to eat the $500 deposit or can it be used for a rescheduled cruise...maybe next year? After 15 yrs. I would say you have been blessed at a time when you need it. Take the $50 p forfeiture penalty and book something later on. Congrats! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drew's Wife Posted January 14, 2013 #37 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Such wonderful news! Children are such a blessing! Congratulations to you and your wife and thank you for sharing this uplifting news!:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almost Packed Posted January 14, 2013 #38 Share Posted January 14, 2013 The best reason to cancel a cruise I agree! Congratulations! Prayers for a healthy mom and baby!:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dobiemom Posted January 14, 2013 #39 Share Posted January 14, 2013 The best reason to cancel a cruise I agree! Congratulations! Prayers for a healthy mom and baby!:D Ditto that! Congrats! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
golfadj Posted January 14, 2013 #40 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Congrats and yes great reason to cancel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qshari Posted January 14, 2013 #41 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Congratulations! I love posts like this! We too struggled for 11 years to get pregnant so I understand your excitement. We will be heading on our 2nd cruise with our miracle baby in a few short weeks. Here's hoping you and your wife have smooth sailing from here on out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grandmacani Posted January 14, 2013 #42 Share Posted January 14, 2013 What wonderful news. A baby is a true blessing, and for the grandparents a super, super time in their lives. I know. Best wishes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halos Posted January 14, 2013 #43 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Guess part of me did want to tell some people too! :D Of course you did! You must be SO amazingly excited! I am very happy for you and have to say that I wish your wife a carefree, easy pregnancy and delivery. CONGRATULATIONS! :):D:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nkwoman Posted January 14, 2013 #44 Share Posted January 14, 2013 So happy for you both. A wonderful blessing. Thank you for sharing. All the best to you and your growing family! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davids68girl Posted January 14, 2013 #45 Share Posted January 14, 2013 I agree with what others have said that this is the best reason to cancel a cruise! Congratulations!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soulsistah007 Posted January 14, 2013 #46 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Aww so sweet!! Congratulations to you and your wife!! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elenaW Posted January 14, 2013 #47 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Best wishes for smooth sailing on the baby gestating front! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4me-itstheC Posted January 14, 2013 #48 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Congratulations to you and your wife! Thank you for sharing your joy with us! Your obvious happiness is infectious - I'm smiling ear to ear for you.:D What she said x2!!! So happy for you both!! Carmel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee777 Posted January 14, 2013 #49 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Awww that is absolutely wonderful news, congratulations to you and your wife :) Dee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CruisinGirl777 Posted January 14, 2013 #50 Share Posted January 14, 2013 An amazing reason to cancel a cruise! Congratulations! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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