UPNYGuy Posted September 2, 2014 #1 Share Posted September 2, 2014 (edited) DW and I are going on the Sun next summer with the in-laws. FIL has been on a cruise with us, but MIL has not. FIL wants a balcony, but doesn't really pay attention where he winds up. I called NCL and had them switch us into the BX above the theatre, so we wouldn't have to listen to my MIL should he go in there thinking he "got a deal" FWIW, wife and I enjoy the later shows, and don't have children to worry about, so the noise is of little concern. Anybody else ever do this??? Sent from my iPad using Forums Edited September 2, 2014 by UPNYGuy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deschoolie Posted September 2, 2014 #2 Share Posted September 2, 2014 DW and I are going on the Sun next summer with the in-laws. FIL has been on a cruise with us, but MIL has not. FIL wants a balcony, but doesn't really pay attention where he winds up. I called NCL and had them switch us into the BX above the theatre, so we wouldn't have to listen to my MIL should he go in there thinking he "got a deal" FWIW, wife and I enjoy the later shows, and don't have children to worry about, so the noise is of little concern. Anybody else ever do this??? Sent from my iPad using Forums and is willing to admit this on CC? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UPNYGuy Posted September 2, 2014 Author #3 Share Posted September 2, 2014 and is willing to admit this on CC? we cruise all the time, and have sailed in cabins ranging from an inside to The Haven. So yes... Is willing to admit it ;) Sent from my iPad using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UPNYGuy Posted September 2, 2014 Author #4 Share Posted September 2, 2014 I did that just so my FIL wouldn't... Sent from my iPad using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starry Eyes Posted September 2, 2014 #5 Share Posted September 2, 2014 We have been in one of those balconies near the theater. We could hear a bit sometimes, but the noise did not trouble us. Ours was also a hull balcony; DH liked it better. I was fine with it; it had some good points. So, if the inlaws are not noise sensitive, they may still be glad they booked a cheaper cabin. If they get a hull balcony, they might like it if they like shelter from sun and wind plus some privacy. Again, the cheaper cabin might suit them fine. Or the inlaws might decide location matters next time. If your plan is to teach a lesson, it may or may not be effective. If your FIL is like my DH, he'd like the cabin enough to try to book it again! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishin' musician Posted September 2, 2014 #6 Share Posted September 2, 2014 We were on the Sun a month ago in 8278 above the theater. In addition to the evening shows we heard the bass rumbling throughout the day as they rehearsed and held events in the theater. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UPNYGuy Posted September 2, 2014 Author #7 Share Posted September 2, 2014 We have been in one of those balconies near the theater. We could hear a bit sometimes, but the noise did not trouble us. Ours was also a hull balcony; DH liked it better. I was fine with it; it had some good points. So, if the inlaws are not noise sensitive, they may still be glad they booked a cheaper cabin. If they get a hull balcony, they might like it if they like shelter from sun and wind plus some privacy. Again, the cheaper cabin might suit them fine. Or the inlaws might decide location matters next time. If your plan is to teach a lesson, it may or may not be effective. If your FIL is like my DH, he'd like the cabin enough to try to book it again! Lol... DW and I booked it so the in laws WOULDNT go in it. Sent from my iPad using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maywell Posted September 2, 2014 #8 Share Posted September 2, 2014 Lol... DW and I booked it so the in laws WOULDNT go in it. Sent from my iPad using Forums Are you getting 2 separate balconies or you both sharing the same one? If you're getting 2 separate balconies (especially on different decks), honestly who cares what they feel as long you get alone time with your spouse.[emoji13] If you're both in the same balcony, then you know the road to hell is always paved with good intentions - heck they might even like it and do it again. [emoji17] And if your MIL is anything like my mom, just leave her at home - she'll always find something to complain about and it might not be the room, so tread lightly.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rbrugler Posted September 2, 2014 #9 Share Posted September 2, 2014 I cannot understand what the OP is saying. Is the post written in code? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soaringfalcon Posted September 2, 2014 #10 Share Posted September 2, 2014 I cannot understand what the OP is saying. Is the post written in code? I'm SO glad I'm not the only one. I read it 3 times and still don't get it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maywell Posted September 2, 2014 #11 Share Posted September 2, 2014 Why do think I ask for clarification because I couldn't tell if its one balcony or 2 separate balconies. No matter which way you look at it. he and his wife are either screwed or setting themselves up for failure later on. A simple leave the relatives at home and enjoy yourselves without them will solve their problems. If you know your relatives are ridiculous (constant complaining for no reason, can't mind their business, drama starting, etc) - Why would you bring them on a cruise, let alone your vacation? :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garycarla Posted September 2, 2014 #12 Share Posted September 2, 2014 I read it three times as well. It appears some words have been left out or something. But, if he changed the FIL's cabin - I think he is looking for trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjbdtz Posted September 2, 2014 #13 Share Posted September 2, 2014 It would appear that while OP doesn't mind FIL, 'cause HE doesn't seem to care WHAT happens to him, MIL is a handful and a half. So OP has booked a room likely to be as far from MIL as possible. Has anybody else booked a crappy room in order to avoid the people they're travelling with? :rolleyes: Stephen . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuiteCruiser Posted September 2, 2014 #14 Share Posted September 2, 2014 (edited) LOL, I think he booked it so that his FIL, who is in a separate cabin, would not book that crappy cabin. I think he's being kind in taking the cheap, lousy location cabin so it is no longer available for the FIL to book, likely there was only one cheap cabin available there. I think he's being the good guy in this case, though it did take me several times reading the post to come up with my theory :) As well, I think he doesn't want his MIL complaining about the FIL choosing a "bad" cabin. It will be interesting to find out who's right! Edited September 2, 2014 by SuiteCruiser Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maywell Posted September 2, 2014 #15 Share Posted September 2, 2014 It would appear that while OP doesn't mind FIL, 'cause HE doesn't seem to care WHAT happens to him, MIL is a handful and a half. So OP has booked a room likely to be as far from MIL as possible. Has anybody else booked a crappy room in order to avoid the people they're travelling with? :rolleyes: Stephen . No, because I leave family at home - I want to sleep with eyes closed, not one eye open to see if they'll go into my wallet / luggage / coat and jump on me / throw water on my face. (One is a thief, the rest are just nosy busboys and habitual line steppers) At least my mom spares me the trouble of inviting her - she's such a grouch and complainer that she makes constant excuses to not go. I want to relax and enjoy on my vacation without serious injuries, not worry about what kind of craziness they're going to put me through. They can stay home.....:cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meatball_nyc Posted September 2, 2014 #16 Share Posted September 2, 2014 Whoa....ok! I purposely leave my husband at home because he would probably end up going overboard anyway :eek: ~Robin Every Day at Sea is a Great Day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JuneauMe Posted September 2, 2014 #17 Share Posted September 2, 2014 LOL, I think he booked it so that his FIL, who is in a separate cabin, would not book that crappy cabin. I think he's being kind in taking the cheap, lousy location cabin so it is no longer available for the FIL to book, likely there was only one cheap cabin available there.I think he's being the good guy in this case, though it did take me several times reading the post to come up with my theory :) As well, I think he doesn't want his MIL complaining about the FIL choosing a "bad" cabin. It will be interesting to find out who's right! You are right. It took me forever to understand this, but after reading you "theory" and scrolling back a few post, it all fits Lol... DW and I booked it so the in laws WOULDNT go in it. See, it make sense now. I can move on, LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KPGirl Posted September 3, 2014 #18 Share Posted September 3, 2014 I also do not understand this questions at all ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dobiemom Posted September 3, 2014 #19 Share Posted September 3, 2014 Whoa....ok!I purposely leave my husband at home because he would probably end up going overboard anyway :eek: I plead the fifth amendment. Just kidding! ;) :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rbrugler Posted September 3, 2014 #20 Share Posted September 3, 2014 I still do not understand why you want to treat your in laws in such a terrible fashion. It is so passive-aggressive. Take them on a cruise, but get them a cabin they will not like. Me thinks a therapist should go along with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sailingnut Posted September 3, 2014 #21 Share Posted September 3, 2014 I do not understand the post. I cruise solo and leave the husband at home~~he would never get on a ship~~hates them! I always have loads of fun meeting new people! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UPNYGuy Posted September 3, 2014 Author #22 Share Posted September 3, 2014 LOL, I think he booked it so that his FIL, who is in a separate cabin, would not book that crappy cabin. I think he's being kind in taking the cheap, lousy location cabin so it is no longer available for the FIL to book, likely there was only one cheap cabin available there. I think he's being the good guy in this case, though it did take me several times reading the post to come up with my theory :) As well, I think he doesn't want his MIL complaining about the FIL choosing a "bad" cabin. It will be interesting to find out who's right! That is EXACTLY what I meant. Sent from my iPad using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UPNYGuy Posted September 3, 2014 Author #23 Share Posted September 3, 2014 (edited) We booked that room before my father in law had a chance to, not being familiar with the layout of the ship, he would have (thinking he scored a deal). That way, he and my MIL would be able to enjoy the cruise without having to listen to the theatre below. I just realized I left that detail out. He just sent me an email ranting that the room he wanted was sold. I have not replied. I know it is the one I went in. He will thank me after he realizes where it is... ;) Sent from my iPad using Forums Edited September 3, 2014 by UPNYGuy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old sole Posted September 3, 2014 #24 Share Posted September 3, 2014 We booked that room before my father in law had a chance to, not being familiar with the layout of the ship, he would have (thinking he scored a deal). That way, he and my MIL would be able to enjoy the cruise without having to listen to the theatre below. I just realized I left that detail out. He just sent me an email ranting that the room he wanted was sold. I have not replied. I know it is the one I went in. He will thank me after he realizes where it is... ;) So I guess you've already started working on your story for when you all get on board and he sees which cabin you're in :eek: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garycarla Posted September 3, 2014 #25 Share Posted September 3, 2014 We booked that room before my father in law had a chance to, not being familiar with the layout of the ship, he would have (thinking he scored a deal). That way, he and my MIL would be able to enjoy the cruise without having to listen to the theatre below. I just realized I left that detail out. He just sent me an email ranting that the room he wanted was sold. I have not replied. I know it is the one I went in. He will thank me after he realizes where it is... ;) Sent from my iPad using Forums It appears your FIL is somewhat irrational/emotional? If so, what happens when he realizes YOU took the room he wanted,and he still thinks it would have been a good deal for him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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