NECruiser83 Posted September 10, 2016 #1 Share Posted September 10, 2016 (edited) If you are one to give your room attendant a little extra (on top of auto gratuities), how much do you typically give. I was thinking of giving ours a $20 at the beginning, not sure if this is about the "norm", or if I should give a little more. There are 2 adults and 1 child in the room, if this makes a difference. This is my fiance's and son's first crusie, also my son will be having his 7th birthday day 3 of the cruise. Some may consider it a "bribe" but I would like to give our steward a little something at the beginning of the cruise to show we appreciate, and maybe a little incentive for an extra towel animal for my son, etc. I have worked in the service industry in the past, so regardless, I would tip extra for great service, so why not give a little "incentive"? Also, typically I would do the same with our waitstaff, but we currently have MTD and are waitlisted for traditional. For MTD, it would be hard to do this as we may have different servers each night, correct? I am not asking for opinions on if I should or not, I know I don't have to, I WANT to. So please, I am just wondering what others, who choose to give at the beginning, typically how much, and how do you do it to not make it awkward? Before posting, I did a search on the boards, but couldn't find what I was looking for, so I apologize if this type of thread already exists. Thanks so much in advance for some advice from more experienced cruisers than myself [emoji1] Sent from my SM-G900V using Forums mobile app Edited September 10, 2016 by NECruiser83 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OCruisers Posted September 10, 2016 #2 Share Posted September 10, 2016 $20 is what we normally do. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snit13 Posted September 10, 2016 #3 Share Posted September 10, 2016 We tip as we go. When a service is rendered, a tip is given. The amount depends on what service we requested. For example, we always request extra pillows and eggcrate foam on top of mattress. Also often have room frig. exptied. For dining, we do MTD on Royal and we tip each night according to the service provided. We also tip host/hostess if we are seated at a table we like....away from high traffic, away from noise of dish station. We do not mind being seated with others, in fact we normally enjoy meeting people from around the country/world. It is a personal choice and I know from reading these boards, many people will not agree with me. Do what makes you feel good and enjoy your time with those you love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ObstructedView2 Posted September 10, 2016 #4 Share Posted September 10, 2016 After we meet our stateroom steward & request certain things such as extra pillows, extra ice, hangars, empty the mini fridge, and so on..... I give the steward $20. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkertwo Posted September 10, 2016 #5 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Our pre-tip is usually $20 as well. We also have had people not happy and calling it a bribe and I don't really care either. I am betting my money the service will be great, not theirs. ;) As to your sons birthday (HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HIM) let the room steward know and ask him if he can do a special towel for the day. We had the biggest birthday cake towel arrangement done up really nice. Have a great cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NECruiser83 Posted September 10, 2016 Author #6 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Thank you everyone for your kind and helpful responses! Im glad to see I was in the right ballpark. I would give it at the end anyway, unless we had an extremely bad/rude experience. Sent from my SM-G900V using Forums mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellipooh Posted September 10, 2016 #7 Share Posted September 10, 2016 For our first cruise two years ago, I considered carefully and decided to pre-tip. I chose more than suggested ($50) since we were in a suite. I tucked it into my handshake when we were introduced to our steward. I've regretted it ever since. Like another poster, we felt instantly forgotten. Had to ask twice for several small favors. Frankly, we rarely got a smile for the remainder of the cruise. It was as if I'd insulted the guy somehow, which was certainly not my intention. Anyway, the answer to your question is that the standard seems to be $20. But I'll never do it again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Cruizers Posted September 10, 2016 #8 Share Posted September 10, 2016 We tip extra at the end of the cruise, $20 to our room Steward, Waiter & Assistant Waiter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dplusd Posted September 10, 2016 #9 Share Posted September 10, 2016 We never tip in advance, but the $20 amount you mentioned is what we usually tip our room steward at the end of the cruise. We are not high maintenance nor do we have any special requests. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NECruiser83 Posted September 10, 2016 Author #10 Share Posted September 10, 2016 (edited) I have requested this thread be removed as my question was answered, my post was clear, this thread was not a debate on if you do or do not. Thank you everyone for your helpful responses!!! Sent from my SM-G900V using Forums mobile app Edited September 10, 2016 by NECruiser83 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
14Terry Posted September 10, 2016 #11 Share Posted September 10, 2016 We usually tip $20 at the beginning as well. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luv2travel06 Posted September 10, 2016 #12 Share Posted September 10, 2016 In my conversations with our cabin steward throughout the cruise I find out if he will be getting off the ship in a particular port then give him a $10 or $20 when we see him in the hallway as we get off the ship that day and tell him to treat himself to something while he's ashore. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NECruiser83 Posted September 10, 2016 Author #13 Share Posted September 10, 2016 In my conversations with our cabin steward throughout the cruise I find out if he will be getting off the ship in a particular port then give him a $10 or $20 when we see him in the hallway as we get off the ship that day and tell him to treat himself to something while he's ashore. Sent from my iPhone using Forums That's a nice idea! Thank you Sent from my SM-G900V using Forums mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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