HELP- vows and ceremony

[awdl2000]

hi everyone,
i am getting married on the mariner on 11-28, i have read the ceremony and vows that the ship provides, i am not sure if i like them! does anyone have a suggestion on where to find info to herp me write a ceremony and some vows, or a copy of what you have used or will be using, i dont have the time, skill, or patients to write my own. i have tried surfing the web but so many sites want you to pay for their services, i am starting to get nervous. we are on the non traditional side we are religous for weddings and funerals, if you catch my drift. please let me know of anything that comes to mind.
thanks
audra