I understand having a problem that is not visible or even easily explained to people. I have a severe phobia of bees and if I do try to tell somebody that, usually trying to explain a panic attack while apologizing for running them over, they are very nice and try to be helpful but usually end up saying something like "I understand, I don't like them either". They are trying to be nice, but there is a difference between not liking them and jumping out of a moving vehicle, trying to jump off an amusement park ride, and peeing your pants as an adult while sitting in your car because you are afraid to get out of the car and run to the house. After years of therapy, I can at least get to my car to go to work and stuff most days but still have people that I am close to "on call" in case I have one in my house or something as well as various anxiety meds and sedatives. Please try to be understanding, and before getting angry with somebody, try to think of a few reasons they may be doing what they are doing or not doing. Try to assume that it may be something you can't see or don't know. One of the reasons that I love cruising; no bees once sailing.π’