It's a shame you're diverted elsewhere. The ships were designed for 'x' number of cruisers and the dining "room" should have allowed proper space accordingly. When the ships are full, as they are now, everyone is jammed into a space which doesn't allow any semblance of privacy. If you're in a family/friend group, fine, but 2 diners wishing to dine 'alone' feel part of a 'stranger' group. Even going to Specialty restaurants isn't the answer. They're full as well with usually no reservations available during prime hours; although the Tuscan does allow good space between tables. IMO the Oceanview is not an alternative. Not sure there is an answer, just have to accept the situation?