Relationships require compatible lifestyles. Years ago as a single parent I dated a guy who was self employed so he had as much time off as he wanted. He had no children. He had a larger income. I had a young child, a job with a few weeks vacation time. I couldn’t possibly do vacations on his schedule. We were just not in the same place in life. In the year we dated, it was obvious. I wanted vacation time with my daughter, he wanted vacation with his partner. No one was the bad guy. We remained good friends and years later did cruises together with our spouses!