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So , for me , this is like 9/11. I grieve every year, I don’t want to keep thinking about it, but I can not stop, this has similar emotional distress,,,  innocent  baby, her Mother , her Father,  endless horror that will never end,  just keep thinking what if parents were at her side instead of GF... but I can’t stop reading ..... there is no good end , baby will never come back ...

Article was inflammatory and enfruating  “elderly colorblind gf” What the hell , he is 51.. How does color blind mean any thing 

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If RCI has to pay any $, do you all think they will put up barriers,  change ships ? I love the open areas on sea days so beautiful,  

What does that mean Chewbecca defense ?

Well now almost makes sense almost trying to save the GF , eh

So, just a thought... Mom a Lawyer Dad a police officer, Grandfather does a stupid thing, if he were not on a  boat , in a Hotel did this w baby, would they sue hotel,   Did this w baby in a two story home w a deck , same outcome, would they sue the home owner,  I am starting to , and I hate myself, get annoyed w the family for a not needed ligation action,   RCI did not coerce, force, encourage , propel cause the action of GF,  there is no way I could be a judge nor juror for it .  It would be like bringing suit against RCI for buying the unlimited drink package, drinking too much falling down getting injured and bring suit for the injury... The direct actions of the MAN caused this ....how are 2 somewhat seemly logical people... the parents.. brining their suit...I know there is no logic at this time,  but if the circumstance  were  in my life, and thank god it is not... this would be the last thingI would  be engaged in..  I would  need drugs and therapy to not want to scream continually at GF.  Not at RCI

Thank you  I can not read about this it haunts me , but yet.. I can’t shut up here either.... I will try promise

And I just can’t shut up what about the passengers on deck she fell onto... I am traumatized and on my couch..... I would need grief counseling .. what happened to them the cruise didn’t continue we they moved off the boat ?

So I have 2 kids now 26 and 27    And that is my grand daughter I’ve there in the picture....  so this is really upsetting me...  she is fine and16 months old...I have no way to feel what the family Mom and Dad are feeling, but, to continue to keep this alive in the media to keep, litagation  engaged against RCI is the total opposite  of what I would think is the method to grieve this loss, anyone  with the smallest portion of a adult thought process would see the video,  yes by a bar not in a kid area , yes GD leaned the baby OUT the clearly defined safe space...... and  I have to think the family has more than grief in mind $ , that’s all  I can see them seeking ...$....... and that will not bring this baby back...nor change what that ass of a GF did......  and if  RCI caves to these people ... what will be next... screened enclosures on every balcony in case other idiots think the same thing.... wrap around screens on  every freaking railing on the ship as there may be  idiots around.... this really makes me angry instead of sad for Mom and Dad...... I hate myself for thinking that way..... I can not tell you what I am thinking about GF......    I would be so deep in grief and sadness I would not want to keep this horrible event going.....😓😥😰💔

No doubt GF made a hideous horrible decision...I am sure he wishes he could turn back time, for  the parents ,they need to grieve , stop wasting time $ and going after RCI, GF should  also should step up.. I compare  to the skier Bodie Miller whose toddler drowned in a neighbor’s pool... a child’s death occurring in an instant  a  circumstance that should have been better thought out, the GF should never have picked her up to the window The Miller family could have watched better, what ever it is,  BUT look at the grace and behavior of Bodie Miller, he did not sue that family that owned the pool, but went on every  media outlet to improve awareness of this.  This family needs to step back and think , that baby should have never been near that level of the window GF did  out her there...and yes  all of the thousands of cruises , this has not happened... HOWEVER Family is in horrible grief, Lawyers appear to take on any case....GF  , only he and God know what he is thinking.  I only hope and pray, (and I am not religious) this family gets someone to review the footage or advise of the footage so they can get on with grieving not wasting time and $, either way, my heart bleeds for the parents

Lol thankyou Nemomo3 ,   Yup that will kill me lol. Hope u got a great room

Please advise the purpose of making us wait, is it in hopes they will sell the room ?  I hate surprises and I hate to wait 

Thank u for the multiple card idea I like Amer Express as back up I have no idea why I think I am seduced by their advertising lol

Thank god for the bar code translation I did it and found my kids rooms. Thanks so much for that hint,  so now I wait to see if the royal up,fairy is good to us We sail i. 29 days and no room officially from RC

Gotta tell ya I did bid and the suspense is killing me we board in 29 days lol And I check twice daily I am pathetically obsessed 

I would also do Daughter, but I paid  for them all to come on the cruise, and the I am taking them to Disney for 2 days so work emails will just have to wait ,  I did set up,rules so it will be easy to remove the crap , and I have a work phone w a hot spot so I will use that when we get off the boat...

Hey SRF is that a Akita in your post photo... and I wanted to read and reply to work emails not look at clients data. Emails after a week off are nightmares

Dtr in law breast feeding, yes you can see the baby, asked for a medical fridge for the milk, thought Inheard the male RCL person  gag, lol.  I guess he thought she just stores it somewhere on her body when she has too much lol

How frustrating so need to stop checking twice a day, eh

Yup, lost me, lol so w my iPad no banking w my work computer no banking no work lol I will be in such withdrawal. I actually  LOVE LOVE  my job ,  I am blessed , how will I endure the withdrawal lol, so why even purchase Internet as I won’t be sending video or pics 👍😀

I know stupid thing to do, if I purchase internet use my WiFi hot spot , will it even work, ?I want to bank or look at confidential work email..I think . both would be a DO NOT DO ! Not secure enough or am I wrong and I can check bank accounts , lol Is anything secure to do? If not why purchase ? Netflix ? Even that involves a password Pinterest lol so confused

So yes I need the other features * can’t get my back to comply I need a shower seat still what ever, if I don’t get that do I not shower for the cruise duration,  I bring my manual wheelchair that I own, my husband is usually tripping over  it eveN when collapsed, in a non handicapped room, we tried  that on Carnival , it was a disaster, the cabin support stepped up helping us several times a day at their suggestion to put it in a closet of theirs so I had to call and get them whenever I wanted to use it, but they did help,  and I usually do no cruise excursions b/c of my back injury.  I def DEF in caps, do not want anyone pushing or touching me other than my family.  I find that highly offensive.  So besides, the getting run over, getting stared at, dirty looks, stepped on, food pates dropped on me, drinks spilled on me,  pushed at big cruise events, crushed as I try to leave a big show event, and when I have to slightly elevate my leg w leg rests, my leg, which has shoes on and highly visible, my leg smashed (I was thinking  of attaching a caution cone to my foot, not so LOL),   I find other passengers to be less than kind.  I do everything Incan not to be a problem,  I go early early to events to not hold up a crowd and wait to the end for it to clear out before I leave. I guess I use about 50% of the  cruise as I avoid crowds. To not make things difficult when in the wheelchair. Last Feb. while on the Indey by back was really bad , so I “parked” at a table by the pizza joint for the night and never left. 

So to hear that some passengers are using a handicapped room for LUXURY, really makes me go ballistic. I would love them to try to live my every day life  in its “luxury “.Sorrry for the rant to those here who I know are not them.

I would love it if the elevators could be figured out , that tends to be a problem, I close my wheelchair  In elevators scooters can’t do that

So, first sending positive wishes and prayers, second , expect unexpected crying events... I can’t  Imagine losing him him, I have not lost hubby , but he is fighting st IV prostate ca, relatively fine right now, we did cruise last year our third cruise, and I cried all over, when he could not see,   I am now  a expert at hiding crying,.  I even cried reading your post.......but , around everyone having fun, it was a mood brightener it is a great idea to go, don’t be hard in yourself..  for the clothing.  I hate wet shirts /shirts from swimming long flowly  maxi pull,over dresses are great and they squish for traveling I love the ones that have a little waist definitation or button all the way so I can  unbutton and show a bit of leg, nothing as much fun as a flowly dress in sea breezes, and it dries fast ,  hate wet shorts lol

So as a wheelchair , manual not scooter,  user, you should see the looks I get  I am a RN w a back injury , I can walk short distances , like the length of a ship dinning room at the buffet, but that’s it, can not walk to my room from any venue on the ship, can not stand for long periods, can not not even stand in the shower, can not even bend over to wash my feet without falling over,   My wheelchair folds flat as all manual ones do, so I use it for all distances , for me a distance is anything longer than a 10 minute walk, lol , But,  if my injury goes into spasm, I can’t move at all, if really bad, become bed bound. I do get a handicapped room ,because if I do get bad, ie; in spasm, I will need wheelchair inthe cabin to get to the bathroom.  But to look at me in good days, I look  fine, and yes ...I get nasty looks all the time when my back is good and I can push the wheelchair for distances and take sitting breaks until I can walk again.  I would be very upset at those that use a scooter for  continence or a bigger room.  My life would be tons easier if I had not caught a falling patient 15 years ago.  Since I don’t look handicapped, people make assumptions.  I also , when in the wheelchair, get sat on, pushed, stepped on, yes people step on my feet, shoved, squished, you name it.  Sorry about the rant here. As a other poster said,  we have no idea what is going on with others. I am defiantly treated differently in the wheelchair and out of it.It is much better out of it.  In conclusion, I must have a accessible room