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If it had been for an event, I think someone would have had a quiet word, but they were not causing any issues so it really didn't matter. Personally, I'm not bothered and this year our club is relaxing it's strict dress code, to try and attract younger members. Without 'new blood', the club will not survive into the future, which is exactly what cruise lines should be looking at.

Well said, I totally agree with you! I suppose we could always buy an Asda suit, get blind drunk and behave like idiots. At least we would look like 'smartly dressed' imbeciles 😁

If you read my post, I said that I was a polo shirt and trousers guy. I never mentioned caps, vest etc. A couple of guys came into our clubhouse wearing jeans, which are not permitted. Did I get upset? No, because they sat quietly enjoying their drinks. Would you rather have someone in a suit and acting loudly and obnoxious, or someone in polo shirt etc, sitting quietly enjoying a meal?

That is the most sensible thing I've read on here and you echo my opinion perfectly 👍

Totally agree...

I no longer own a penguin costume and I have no intention of buying one either 🐧😁

I think you quoted three very important words in your post, 'smarter dress code'. Smart doesn't necessarily equate to suit and tie. My golf club has a 'smart dress code' for the clubhouse, but no one wears a suit. My initial post wasn't saying that I have a strong opinion about these nights, it was about people being upset or annoyed by other people who don't wear a suit. What people wear has no impact on my evening of food and drink; if its good, it's good, irrespective of others clothes. I simply don't care and I'm not interested in what other cruisers are doing. This is my holiday and for other people it's their holiday. As far as I'm concerned, as long as we are all enjoying it, then that's what we are here for. It just seems from reading this thread, that certain posters are far too interested in other people! Just for clarification, in case this post didn't make it clear, I am actually agreeing with you. And as I said, as for formal nights, I'll avoid the restaurants and continue to dress as I choose.

I totally agree with you! After having to wear a suit and tie everyday for 25 years for work, that's the last thing I want to wear on my holiday. As you say, I wonder what percentage of suits are F&F, George or Tu? I'll do as I've always done on cruises and merely avoid the formal nights. If people wish to dress up, that's fine, but it's not for me...

I genuinely don't know why people are upset by what other people are wearing,especially if they look smart. I'm a polo shirt and trousers sort of guy; smart ones which I wear for my private golf course. My theory is if it's smart enough for there, it'll do me! I couldn't go in the restaurants on formal nights on P&O, which I wouldn't, but if I bought a cheap suit and shirt from a charity shop, it would be OK.

Unless P&O have suddenly started stocking other options than the boring, standard whiskies, then there is a point to taking your own. I would happily pay £4 extra for a bottle of something I actually enjoy drinking. I'm even happy to book said beverage 3 months in advance to ensure they have it, but it isn't happening, so I'll be taking my favourite tipple. Cheers.

Excellent! Tonight I'll be opening my cheapest whiskey, which I have bought from amazon. It's an English one called Bankhall. Never heard of it, but it was mentioned on a forum I follow, so I thought, why not?!?

Oh my, I really hope you like it now!! Please don't attack me if you don't 🤣

Hopefully it won't let you down! I tried an Australian whiskey the other day called Starward. That's a cheapy but very nice!

In sure my whisky enthusiast friend will be interested. I'll let him know. Thank you!

In which case, I'll ensure I spend twice as much then. Can't have those shareholders not receiving a dividend 😁

We are finally in agreement 🤣

I think you answered your own question, with your statement 'without any proof whatsoever...' Think we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one, which is something I'm happy to do, but many on here aren't.

What an excellent point! You Sir are 100% correct, they have already introduced this 😂!!

I actually covered your point by asking what the issue is, with not spending whilst on board....

I would beg to differ on this. The thread is all about having something that was there taken away. Just because you don't do it, doesn't mean that no one should. Many people have explained that they enjoy a drink of something, not available on board, on their balcony. Me included. Personally I have no interest in black tie night and have never participated in it, but, if it was taken away, I would be sympathetic to the ones who do enjoy their evening dressing up. As for not spending a penny on board, I don't see the issue with this (I'm not one of those people by the way). Everyone has paid the required amount to board the ship and after that, what they do with their money is their own choice. Unless of course P&O decide each cruiser is required to spend £xxx whilst on board!

Would be preferable to me!

As a regular Marella cruiser, you are correct in that you can take on whatever alcohol you wish, at whatever time. Whilst we were in the Caribbean in December, we took on spirits, beer and wine and no one batted an eyelid. They don't care; while ever you are drinking your own, it saves them money!! I'm sure you'll have a great time, we always have.

The English is actually distilled by 'The English Whiskey Distillery', they do various varieties, but I like the standard one (just Google the English whiskey and you'll find it). I've had Smokehead and yes, it's not bad for a cheapie. We have a friend who used to host Whisky Tastings and he has over a hundred bottles, from all over the world. He very kindly keeps bringing me 50cl tasters! If you get the chance, try an Indian whiskey; he's brought me 2 different ones and they are excellent!

Ooh, thank you! A sensible response for once rather than a 'well you're wrong, you can't have an opinion, the cruise line is always right'! I'll look into those so thank you. I'm actually enjoying various ones at the moment; The English is one distilled in Norfolk and has a very subtle flavour, whilst Penderyn is a new(ish) Welsh distillery and is receiving good reviews. There are several Japanese ones which I enjoy as well, all having differing tastes.

I totally agree with you, I was merely pointing out that, to someone who enjoys a variety of whisky/whiskey, the choice isn't good. I wasn't criticising what they stock, but I am surprised they have 3 x Highland and 3 x Speyside. Each one is the same style!