We have five senses: vision, hearing, taste, smell and feel. Stimulation produces reactions that range from pleasurable to painful. That varies by the receiver.
What one person finds pleasant may cause the opposite to another.
Taste: I am told some enjoy the flavors of tequila, licorice or mackerel. Others wouldn’t taste them (again) on a dare. Imagine arriving at a dinner party to be told that was the menu.
Smell: how many times have you encountered someone who appears to have bathed in cologne or perfume? Yet, they themselves seem impervious. Ever bring a tuna salad sub into a plane? Well, don’t.
Sight: Stripes and polka dots together. Hairy armpits. Blood and gore. Most people can name something they don’t wish to look at.
Feel: Slime. Extreme heat or cold. I have one son who cannot suffer the feel of grass under his feet. Yes, that’s weird. But I doubt he is alone.
Sound: Did you know that some carry a genetic trait that cause discomfort at the sound of others chewing? Opera. Thrash metal. Bubble gum pop. Tibetan throat singing. What one loves, another cannot tolerate.
My point is that the considerate human recognizes the possibility that his taste in music, food & drink, scent, etc. may be upsetting others and acts accordingly. Music is for personal enjoyment and should be everyone’s choice. If it cannot be, it needs to be unheard.
Just my opinion though. I don’t make the rules outside my own home and vehicle.