@candydane
Pre-Pandemic/pre-Medallion (that was supposed to be working, but wasn't), they stuck a sticker on my cruise card. I always managed to get a stone bed (ahhh). Did not make use of any other spa amenities.
Post Pandemic, menus are on the television/app. I suppose you could ask for a hard copy, but there is no need to anymore. Best to ask your Assistant Manager in Club Class dining which nights are xxx. Last night is usually "American" with turkey, meatloaf, and Baked Alaska. I don't care for the Italian night, except for the tiramisu. Somehow, I always pick that night...for making my dinner reservations. Sea Days are usually formal nights.
It is getting harder and harder to make specialty dining reservations after you get onboard. I happened to luck out with a Dine Line person who was very helpful in finding me a table with full reservations at a time I preferred. Not saying this will happen for you.