thats the other thing too, and why I havent flatly said no. I know how well that went...
1) no ships above 100,000 GRT = we go on one that is 140,000
2) no Royal Caribbean = we go on Liberty of the seas
3) no Carnival = ... soon to be platinum 🤣
hence why I have given up trying to set rules. For years, mine was a no ships above 100,000 GRT, and we stuck with Holland America (and flat out refused to sail on carnival due to the reputation). After we had several poor cruises with HAL, we ventured out and found that most cruise lines are more alike than different (especially the megaship lines). They have the same end result (carry pax from place to place on a floating hotel, and provide food and drink, and entertainment).