Lola, it has been four years since my husband passed away suddenly. On a cruise, no less! We had an absolutely fabulous day in Cadiz that last day. I thought I would not cruise again, but I certainly have. We often did different things during the day on sea days, and I made friends at trivia and the like, and that is what I continue to do. DH liked to sleep in, so I often ate a relaxing breakfast alone with my book. Cruise Critic helps as fellow members rally around. Yes, I still miss DH every day, but I do love cruising and it is still a great way to holiday. No cooking either! AZ and SS are great with solo lunch and dinner tables, and pre-dinner drink gatherings, so there is plenty of choice. And of course you also meet and mingle with couples. I hope I meet you at sea one day. Carol