Sthrngary

14 hours ago, GALSews said:

Oh, SthrnGary, we'll see how we like the Joy in late November as you have been partial to it.

Enjoy, you deserve a nice vacation.  The Joy is a nice ship. I look forward to reading your review. 

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

In my opinion, the risks are simply to great to consider this. Have I thought about it, or gummy's, yes.  These folks got off easy with a fine. Lots of question on this and other social media sites on this subject.  

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

2 hours ago, Wordyways12 said:

My husband (Bob) and I have done one Oceania and it was amazing - a 7 night Cuba with three stops including overnight Havana!  Unforgettable trip and great amenities on that smaller ship. I will look for more details on your father daughter trip on the boards after you return from your adventure.  Our girls loved Rome and Pompeii, they were lukewarm on Venice - but I think they just need to work on their travel stamina.  
 

Bon voyage!

@Wordyways12 Where in Ohio are you from.  I lived for three years in Ohio City across the street from the Market in a lovely town home. We saw the bottles going on the assembly line in the brewery across the street.  Lovely but cold place.  

Venice is all about location.  We are right next to the most famous bridge. We will take a gondola ride, water taxi to the hotel and we both love street food. It does not take much to entertain us both.  the other thing is, most of this "Daddy" is paying for so we are on a different budget then when my daughter went to Europe at 18 years old. 

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

44 minutes ago, Wordyways12 said:

I couldn’t resist following up on your post here because we have learned so much from your posts about cruising the Haven on NCL.  Our family has bounced between DCL Concierge and Haven for several years -  the break from Covid was unwanted and unexpected - and still find we enjoy both for different reasons.  Our only cruise under 7 nights was the Disney Wish ‘22  in the Inaugural season (again thanks to Covid delay from a 2019 booking).  Since then we did a family 9 night in the Haven Rome to Venice and with extra days in each it was a 2 week celebration trip for my husbands “retirement”.  Next year we are doing a Tauck river cruise with a large group of friends - with the mentality of wanting to carpe diem.

 

I just decided to take my older teen daughter on the Wish again - she has a summer internship that will make a family vacation difficult.  Not a fan of short cruises and been there done that on the itinerary - but we can still explore new activities and enjoy ourselves on the beautiful ship.

 

Your trip sounds amazing - enjoy every aspect of it!

@Wordyways12 Thank you for reaching out.  My adult daughter and I depart on Monday, April 22, 2024 which is this upcoming Monday.  I read my post that you replied to and need to make a correction.  We will be ending our trip in Paris, France.  We will be in Paris for three days.  One of those days we "WILL" be going to Disney Paris.  

Relating to your post above, in November 2023, my wife and I did an Oceania Cruise on the Riviera for 10-days in the Mediterranean. We went from Athens to Barcelona. Rome was part of that trip and we loved it. So much so, I am going to Rome next week for another two days.  Venice will be the end port of our Cruise again on Oceania this time the Vista in October 2025.  Add to that, my daughter and I will be spending 2 days in Venice next week as well. Fun stuff.  Thanks for reading.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment.

19 minutes ago, Barney Gallagher said:

Great detailed post.

 

We are on The Breakaway on March 19-26, 2024.  We are staying in The Haven.

 

We would like to board as early as possible.   Is there any trick to doing that or do we just call as soon as possible when the 21 day checkin window starts in ten days?

 

Thanks!

@Barney Gallagher I think you mean April or May.  That said, I will tell you what I do and you can consider others approaches as well.  Assuming you will be leaving from Miami or New Orleans.  Miami is my favorite because it is NCL new terminal.  I get to the port about 10:00 AM.  I usually have to wait for the security to open for my cruise.  I wait at the beginning of the line which is why I get there early.  Every guest has to go through the same security.  

Once through the security, go to the end passed the normal counters looking for the Haven Sign.  Don't be surprised if the folks at the Port are clueless.  Just look for the sign.  As you know or don't know, Haven guest can board anytime. They are also the first to board the ship.  So you check in at the Haven counter, go to the Haven Port Lounge, take a seat near the door exit to the ship.  When you see them open it, get up and walk towards that door.  You are first on board, first to check in at Muster, first to talk to the Haven Concierge about any changes you need.  That is my approach.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

This thread has verged off the topic multiple times.  It eventually comes back.  No issue on my part. On the topic of luggage tags.  I use a plastic piece with metal loop (purchased on Amazon) utilizing the NCL printable luggage tags.  I do this because one cruise, I put the NCL provided tags on my luggage and it got ripped off by Delta Airlines.  I put me the Haven NCL provided tags on just before I drop the luggage at the gate.  My wife also puts a colored cloth on the handles of each of the luggage pieces so that are more easily identified. 

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

2 minutes ago, RocketMan275 said:

Question:  Is SthrnGary short for SouthernGary?

@RocketMan275 The name SthrnGary is because decades ago, when all we all had was dial up for AOL, my wife's screen name was SthrnTami.  So I took on SthrnGary.  That is funny because I grew up in Long Island New York.  Thanks for asking.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

9 minutes ago, psuboater said:

Your next cruise, you should tell people "DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM? I AM SO IMPORTANT I HAVE PEOPLE PRETENDING TO BE ME ON CRUISE CRITIC" 😄

@psuboater You hit on an important point.  When I go on cruises, I rarely if ever tell folks my name online.  WHY? I am really not important.  I just like to cruise and know what I will get for my investment.  So anyone reading this, if someone says they are "SthrnGary", it was NOT ME.

Side note, I was just on an Oceania Mediterranean Cruise in November of 2023.  I was quietly sitting at the pool bar with my two guest that joined my wife and me.  A person went up to him, because he looks like my emoji and said, "Are You SthrnGary." I heard that and said, to my friend, "Well, are you SthrnGary?".  I finally introduced myself.  The truth is, I am usually recognized while sitting a a bar which actually did happen with a great new friend named Bubba from MS.  

Anyway, All that matters is we all have a great time.  

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

7 hours ago, Ronni7770 said:

We also will be on that cruise in a Penthouse.  Looking forward to meeting you in person.

@Ronni7770 I look forward to it.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment.

4 hours ago, coolbluegreenseas said:

I have read the literature on Oceania’s site and scoured through here, but still undecided. TL/DR: Bucket list item for hubby. Trip is in October 2025 11 night Antiquity starting in Rome and ending in Istanbul. We tend to spend a lot of time on our veranda and enjoying each other’s company but do like to venture out. With this tiny bit of information in mind, is the suite worth it? The Concierge level is really, really nice, but the butler serving dinner from the speciality restaurants in the cabin sounds really luxurious. Does anyone have personal experience and thoughts? Thanks for any responsess.

@coolbluegreenseas First, I have not read all the responses to your question.  I think you are looking for an opinion so let's start with that.  If you are asking about these two staterooms, it lets me know either are within your budget.  I would do a Penthouse. Be very careful how out imagine this cruise in your mind.  I learned this lesson.  Always have Realistic Expectations.  

I also will be cruising, in October 2025 on the Vista leaving from Monte Carlo and end in Venice.  My cruise is 10 days.  I am in a Penthouse and our friends are in a Concierge stateroom.  Last year we did a 10 day Mediterranean Cruise on the Oceania Riverina. We did a Vista Suite and they did a Penthouse.  They are fine with the Concierge stateroom this time because they did not effectively utilize the butler.  We did.  None of use even once had dinner in the suites.  That is nice once in my opinion.  Everything seems to be better at the actual restaurant. Remember, my opinion only.

Everyone wants something different from a cruise.  Be true to yourself.  Life is to short.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

8 minutes ago, Fogfog said:

@Sthrngary

THAT story about the boorish and rude imposter is shocking and crazy.

I imagine it took a good bit of self control to give him enough room to hang himself.

If he was that impertinent in person, imagine what he is like behind a screen and on a keyboard.

 

Thanks to you for your posts and what you contribute to this CC community.

It is appreciated. 

@Fogfog Part of the reason at this time in my life, I tend to to Haven, Retreat, Yacht Club or Luxury/Premium Plus Brands it to avoid folks like this.  So it shocked me as well.  It took no self control at all.  I wanted to see how far this person would go.  When it went to far, I did the phone thing.  For the life of me, I don't understand why manners are lost on cruises.  Chair hogs at the pool, people touching food on buffets, Row holders in the theatre.  The list goes on and on.

When these things started to make me upset and uncomfortable, I looked for a solution.  The Haven for 99.99% of the time make my experience better because most of those issues were greatly reduced or eliminated.  This guy was a very rare situation and one hard to forget.  I laugh about it now. 

Thanks for the kind words.  I just like cruising, hate other social media and want to focus on as many happy memories as possible.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

18 minutes ago, sassycruiser said:

We love NOLA.  We sailed from there in 2019 and it was really nice.  We are in the Detroit area so the flight is not bad.  

@sassycruiser Hello, I wrote the big thread on the Haven.  I have cruised on the Getaway from Nola in the Haven.  Ask me anything.  Happy to help.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

Well, it seems many think getting to know the staff on a cruise is unusual.  Using the comparison of staying in a hotel and not carry about the staff the same way as some do on a cruise.  Those folk gave their personal opinions and we should all allow opinions whether we like them or not to express how someone really feels. That is why it is called social media. 

If you disagree, you are also allowed to say something.  "Nice setup, right."  I personally disagree.  Part of a GREAT cruise experience to me is meeting and getting to know the staff/crew. Taking an interest in their lives and experiences.  Not every waking moment of every day, just in passing.  I do the same thing with almost everyone I meet.  It is what makes cruising different then the 1,000's of days I have spent in hotels in my business travel career.  

Now if it is not your thing to do that, I respect your decision.  It is MY thing, I will continue to do it. I will also continue to over tip those that provided superior service.  WHY, I like when people see me and smile first because I showed a level of interest in them and second because I valued their extra efforts.  

Now since this is a Haven Thread, I have rarely had any crew member in the Haven be anything less then outstanding with the exception of a butler or two.  I fixed that with my approach which works for me but NOT everyone that tries it.  

If I have something to complain about it is very rude guests that think they own the place.  On a cruise a few years ago, I had a guest that was a constant complainer.  He said he was HUGE on CruiseCritic.com.  After a while I had enough, I asked him what his name was on CruiseCritic.com.  He said, "SthrnGary".  That is ME? To my shock, he was impersonating, "ME".  I played along just enough to let this person put his foot in his month.  Then I say, "OK, I have had enough.  You have been rude to almost everyone you have come in contact with.  You say you are "SthrnGary", that is really funny." He asked why, "I say, because I am SthrnGary".  He said, you are NOT.  I turned my phone around and showed him my account on CruiseCritic.com.  His face got red and I never saw him again on that cruise.  

Look folks, Just make your next cruise all it can be.  Find people you enjoy and enjoy the people you find.  It is one hell of a hobby and makes you feel like a Rock Star for a week or so a year.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

10 minutes ago, ChiefMateJRK said:

I agree 100% Gary.  I'm sure that those top end cabins are very nice.  They might even marginally add to my overall enjoyment of the cruise.  As I've stated, the few times I've upgraded to modest balconies, I found it to be worth the couple hundred bucks (or less) that I paid.  What generally triggers me to post is the posts that read like:

"Once I went Haven, I could never go back"

"I would never cruise if I couldn't be in the Haven"

"Sucks to not be able to afford better than inside"

"I would die in an inside"

"You should have worked harder so that you didn't have to sail inside"

Okay, there's a bit of hyperbole mixed into those, but not a lot.

Truth.

@ChiefMateJRK Oh, I totally get it.  I see those also.  If I have not had my coffee yet OR if I have had to many coffee's I write quite the response.  I then delete it.  I REALLY want to post it, but I delete it.  WHY, because as you said, something triggered me.  My trigger is different then yours.  But just as triggering.  My grammar and spelling well, can be challenging. A few times, some folks have rolled over me like I was trash on the street.  You should have seen those emails before I deleted them.  

Back to your point, the Haven is nice for sure.  But so is Haven Lite.  Everyone needs to do what is right for them.  I see your point on some of the comments.  They almost sound like a cruiser is a second class person because they don't do a expensive suite.  Nothing could be further from the truth. A cruiser is a cruiser.  We all have a budget.  The reason many of us go on NCL regardless of the stateroom is what the entire ship offers us.  If we wanted something different, we would go to another brand.  

If I personally had all the money in the world, I would go on Ritz-Carlton Yacht Collection or Regent Seven Seas.  Like you, I can't possibly see how that would make my time and vacation that much better for the 8x increase in price. Yet some love it and also some were disappointed in it.  Just the decision we all have to make about cruising. 

Hey, lets make a deal.  If we ever cruise together, lets share a meal together.  Meeting folks on this board can be a really fun and interesting thing.  Deal.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

9 hours ago, ChiefMateJRK said:

Yikes!! So NCL is putting the steerage passenger's lives at risk?  Have you reported this to the authorities?

Yep.  Most of us do.  Some of us (the tiny minority) consider an inside cabin on an NCL ship to be a "nice cabin."  We are humble peasants who can appreciate whatever we can afford (or choose to spend.)

You wouldn't have to work so hard if you could be happy in a nice inside cabin.  Apparently, you can't.

That sounds like private stuff that has no business being posted on the internet, regardless of what you're trying to accomplish here.  Extremely disrespectful to a person who may be encountering health struggles.  Many do, but don't use somebody else's challenges as a tool.

@ChiefMateJRK Some like expensive staterooms, others don't.  Some share their reasoning, others don't.  We all mostly love cruising, some different then others.  That makes us all a community.  I used to RV.  I had a pull behind trailer and sometimes, the RV next to me had a Million Dollar Bus RV.  Funny, when we were cooking dinner at night, we both had hot dogs. I always remember that.  Kind of a reality check.

I also pay WAY to much for staterooms/Suites.  In my case, I do it because as I got older, I got Bougie. I admit it fully.  I am a older, portly, Bougie guy.  There I finally said it, LOL. Earlier in my life, like 40 plus years ago, I was in an inside cabin on my honeymoon with bunk beds.  It was to us, all the luxury we would ever need.  As time went on, we upped the stateroom over the four decades.  My last stateroom was a Vista Suite on Oceania Cruises.  It was 1,300 sft, half the front of the ship that wrapped around the side balcony, and lots of amenities.  We had our friends with us and they had full access to our suite especially the full bar.  Would I do it again, NO.  Why, waisted space never utilized, the balcony furniture was tied down during cruising, the outside hot tub on the deck did not have hot water, and it had an exercise room we used for luggage storage.  Now I know that so I will choose accordingly in the future. 

My point is, the the stateroom does not make the cruise, nor the cruiser. Smaller or larger does not mean better. Sometimes, as in some brands, it can mean better depending on your tastes. Expressing enjoyment of any stateroom should never cause issues with other guests.  In my case, I grew up poor, had some health issues which are now resolved and simply want to enjoy my vacations the way I choose to enjoy them.  Kind of like I enjoy posting on CruiseCritic.com.  Most of the time, we help each other approach future cruises better.  That is super helpful and has really enhance my past few cruising experience.  Nice community of folks.  

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

5 minutes ago, graphicguy said:

OK…all you Haven Vets…. 

 

Have an opportunity to book a 7 day Bermuda cruise to either Bermuda in June (my B-Day) or in Sept for Canadian itinerary.  Both in HI cabin.  Been years since I’ve been to Bermuda.  But, Sept in Canada makes it right in the middle of leaves changing.

 

Any input on Joy (I’ve never sailed her)?  Sailed her to either Bermuda or Canada?

 

Both are cheap (I mean really cheap for Haven) and about the same fare!

 

TIA!

@graphicguy Bermuda. The Joy is one of my favorite ships.  It was originally designed for the Asian Market, quickly got redone to for the US market. The Pool area is a bit different but I kind of liked it.  Overall, very nice comfortable ship.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

5 minutes ago, NclCruiuser said:

afternoon - hope everyone is staying dry and safe. Quick question - will be on the Joy staying in the Courtyard Penthouse with balcony (HF) room. Will I need to bring a nightlight or two? What about enough outlets for charging IPADs, phones, CPAP machine, etc. Do I bring some European plug converters? Will the Cruise line provide extension cords if needed? Have seen mentions in this group about candy for the crew. How much and what did you bring? Who do you give it to and how do you do that? Anything else I should know about?

Best... Steve

@NclCruiuser I am so excited for you.  I personally love the NCL Joy.  Allow me to help:

Night Light:  I always bring a night light for the bathroom. It is rumored you can ask for one but I never count on that.  Smart move by the way. 

• CPAP: Please call the Haven Pre-Cruise Desk and tell them you will be bringing a CPAP.  They will provide you with an extension cord if needed and water for the CPAP at no charge.
• Outlets: This one is tricky.  I usually bring a Power Strip that is made for Cruise Ships.  Most Surge Suppressors can hurt the electrical system on a ship so they are very strict.  I put the power strips in a central location with one of the multi charger cords for two iPhone and other devices. 
• Outlets:  When the re-designed the Joy from the Asian Market to the US market, they added US power sources.  You should be fine.  Do I also take a European converter, yes. 
• Candy for the Crew:  I have never done this but I think they would like it.  I have seen some folks give out small Milky ways and such.  I think they would like a gratuity better but it is the thought that counts.  I have traveled all my adult life for business and every week I would bring the flight crew of the jet I was on a box of See's Chocolates.  See's is a bit expensive but that is what I did.  I am about to go to Europe with my adult daughter.  I have ordered two boxes of 1 lbs and several small boxes for agents at the counter.  Again, not needed but it is the thought that counts. Give it to those that did a good job per your question. I also have a small thank you note i give with the candy.

I hope that answered your questions.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

33 minutes ago, justhappy said:

If I’m considering the nicest and least expensive cabin I’ve ever cruised in it would have to be the studio cabin I had for a 5 night cruise on the Getaway. Best sleep ever and since it was a group cruise it came with a lot of perks.

On the other hand the most expensive but definitely my favorite is the aft Haven balcony on deck 9.

 

  Over 3 cruise lines I’ve sailed in insides, ocean view,  balcony, Central Park balconies, club balcony and Haven.

It’s more about the fun you have and friends you meet vs what kind of cabin you’re in. So the nicer cabin is just a bonus.
 

@justhappy Great post.  I say, "Just be Happy". 

Cruise well and enjoy every moment.

9 hours ago, kd1044 said:

I like to cruise in Suites.  I like the perks and I think for everything that is included you can find good value.  I am constantly reviewing ships, itineraries, and pricing.  You can still find some relative bargains. 

 

Even after I book, I monitor the prices and every so often the price drops or a better cabin becomes available from a last-minute cancelation, and I swoop in.

 

The smallest cabin I ever had was an obstructed Junior suite.  It was s short cruise, just my husband and myself and it was OK mostly due to the fact that I still got all the suite perks. 

 

I went on a family cruise once and my daughter shared and inside cabin with the other cousins and I could barely breath in a cabin the size of a walk-in closet.

 

I cruise less but I am content.  You can't take the money with you when you go, but you can take your experiences. 

@kd1044 Well said.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

14 hours ago, CruisingSince1982 said:

We are actually thinking of taking your suggestion for our next caribbean cruise and doing "Haven Lite" 🙂 

@CruisingSince1982 A couple of additions to Haven Lite.  First, if you can gain a Cabana in the Vibe Beach Club, consider it.  Second, always bid for a Haven Suite.  Do your due diligence to make sure it is a bargain upgrade.  You might get lucky.  As the Haven has gotten more expensive, let folks grab them upfront.  Who knows, the new Haven Lite by be the actual Haven.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

22 hours ago, blackwing said:

Or have they always been, on the whole, like this?  Some of our early cruising experiences were on Carnival.  When we went on our first NCL 10 years ago, I had thought at the time that the Norwegian passenger on the whole was a bit more refined than the stereotype of the Carnival passenger.  There were formal nights, and passengers dressing up in suits and gowns was the norm and not the exception.  I know that NCL bills itself as a cruise line for families.  But I still want to believe that the passengers overall are very classy.

 

And then there were some incidents I witnessed last week on Getaway:

 

At the Mixx bar, an older lady turns to a middle aged man of Asian descent standing next to her.  He is waiting to order his drink.  She says to him very slowly and loudly, "EXCUSE ME".  He says "Yes, hello?"  She says "Oh good, you DO speak English.  I was worried."

 

Man walking in late to an art auction, making a beeline to a waitress at the front of room collecting empty champagne (prosecco) glasses.  Auctioneer is talking but the man just loudly says the the waitress "WHERE IS THE CHAMPAGNE".  I'm assuming he didn't have the bar package!

 

I walked into an elevator, where a man in his early 20s is chatting with a man of about 40 who is wearing a turban.  20 year old says "what country are you from".  40 year old (who did have a thick accent) says without missing a beat "United States of America".  20 year old gives this dumbfounded look and says "oh.  I meant..."  40 year old says "oh you mean originally?  India."  20 year old says "How is it?"  40 year old says "I wouldn't know.  I've only been there 4 times in the past 20 years."  Meanwhile, the 40 year old's 7-ish year old daughter just keeps repeating "it's crazy there, it's crazy".  I left the elevator before hearing the resolution of this conversation.

 

The best was the last night when I thought I was going to witness a fistfight.  There was a long line of people without reservations trying to get into the Tropicana.  The popular piano player Louis Razon was playing there all night.  One man was waiting in line and I think some little kids who were running around all over the crowded space must have bumped him.  He must have said something because the next thing I know, I hear shouting.  A woman is in his face yelling something like "Excuse me?  You do not get to talk to me like that."  There's some back and forth and she says "You are not allowed to tell me how I should parent my children."  Then her husband gets up and gets in the guys face and says to him something like "You need to back away.  You need to leave and sit down".  The parents go and sit on some bench.  The man (who wasn't talking loudly) must have been talking to the people he was in line with because all of a sudden I hear the woman yelling "excuse me!  I can hear you talking."  I went to the bathroom and when I came back, the parents were gone.  I don't know if they got seated or left.

 

I should not be surprised at all by any of these incidents, I think perhaps the answer is that NCL passengers are a slice of America, just like everybody else.

@blackwing Sorry for your experience.  Addressing your topic.  All I can do is give you my perspective.  As you did based on your recent experiences.  

• Pre-Covid:  I cruised NCL and Celebrity.  Both in and out of the Haven and Retreat.  I will say the Haven and Retreat was far better then when I was on the rest of the ship.  That said, it was based on over crowding more then anything in my opinion. 
• Just After Cruising Began After Covid:  My first few cruises were outstanding.  Everyone was great from the crew to the guest.  Even when we were told to wear masks, it did not matter.  I notices back then, that the ships were 50% filled so no crowds ever.  This experience was both NCL and Crystal.  
• One Year Ago: The ships were over crowded again and with all due respect, the crazies were in full form. Pushy, rude and nasty.  
• November 2023: I was on NCL sister line, Oceania.  The ship was sold out and I never felt like there was a crowd.  Every was was beyond nice.  Where there Chair Hogs, yes.  Was their rude guest, NO. 

Cruising is a group of random people going on vacation. The more you pack them in, the more people tend to be rude.  That might not be a fact.  It is however my opinion.  To eliminate my vacation from being remembered as a bad time.  I take less now, stay in the area's like the Haven, Retreat or Yacht Club.  I cruise lines that cost a little more and have less people.  That is my solution to avoid what happened to you.  Not for everyone but has worked for me.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

To answer your question.  I like the NCL Joy vibe because it is both sides of the ship.  I usually stay in the Haven and to take the Vibe as an option.  Then I did my first and ONLY Solo cruise and had a Club Suite.  I took the Vibe for that cruise.  

The Vibe like many topics have those that love it and those that don't.  I LOVE the Vibe.  They have a bar, they treat everyone like rock stars and love the frozen fruit. I also stayed in a Cabana on the Breakaway in the Vibe.  Nice but not close to as nice as the Joy.  My opinion ONLY.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

@Crusing5960 You are right, gratuities is a hot bed for debate and controversial responses.  So lets start with the normal response. 

• Gratuities are personal, give what you think is right based on the experience you received.
• Give the Butler his/ tip on day one.
• Give the Butler half his/her tip on day one and the other half at the end based on service. 
• Only provide gratuity to the butler at the end of the trip and only if they did a great job. 
• No need to tip the Haven Concierge, wait staff or bartender. 
• Always tip the Haven Concierge, wait staff or bartender. 
• Never give extra to the room steward.
• Always give extra to the room steward.

Did you get all that.  Now for what I think you are really trying to do.  You are new, you want to prepare, you want to be fair because gratuities is so important to the crew. I will share what I do and as so many people have told me over the many years, that does not make it right.

• Butler:  I usually give the butler between $100 and $150 per seven day cruise.  I am not sure if you will have the same stateroom and butler for the 21 days so you might want to provide the gratuities at the beginning or end of each week.  You know your situation best.  The Butlers on NCL do not participate in the pre-paid gratuities program. 
• Haven Concierge: I usually give $50.00 to the Concierge staff per seven day cruise.  Usually at the end of the week the day before we leave.  Since you are on a 21 day cruise, you can do it three times or all at once at the end.  Some pay more, some pay less, some don't tip at all. 
• Servers and Bartenders:  If you get great service or you feel it would make your future service better, provide gratuities as it seems appropriate.  I usually tip the bartender on day one with $20.00.  I do it again a couple of time if my service is good to great. Some guest do more, less and none. Servers are if the service was outstanding.  I tend to wait to the end of the cruise to pick and choose who did the best job. 

I am sure other will kick in.  Hope that was helpful.

Cruise well and enjoy every moment. 

Because I have to much time on my hands, I look at cruise pricing almost every day.  I really focus on them the first day of every month.  I booked a cruise last November will cruising on the Oceania Riviera in the Mediterranean.  The cruise we booked was October 2025, on the Oceania Vista, 10-Day Mediterranean Cruise that went so mostly different ports then our Riviera Cruise. By booking onboard, we got 5% off the fare because we booked it so far in advance, $600.00 per cabin off because it was a Penthouse, $250.00 OBC for the new cruise, and $800.00 of SimplyMore excursions which is now $600.00 if you booked it today. 

As of this morning, the rates for this cruise which is wide open went up $400.00 per guest.  I was hoping to say a reduction or sale but not this time.  I found this interesting and will watch in the future it a few months from now, they do a "Super Sale" reduce to fare by simply giving back what they just added.  That last sentence is simply a theory but one that I will enjoy watching if it should unfold.  

Fare watching is a hobby of mine.  In this case, I am very happy we pulled the trigger on the ship.  What I am unhappy about is the darn cruise is so far away. 

Cruise well and Enjoy Every Moment. 

@Daniel A I did not want to continue to talk about Oceania on the NCL Board.  Your last focus was on the drink package.  I also always get or upgrade to the Full Drink Package.  The now pricing on Oceania it includes an Amenities Package called "SimplyMore".  That includes Wine, Champagne and Beer at Lunch and Dinner meals. For $30.00 per day per guest, you can gain the Full Unlimited Drink Package with spirits.  All me also to add, you are allowed to bring both Wine and Spirits onboard (Usually 6 bottles per port).  

So for example, when I am in Italy, I get two bottles of really nice Italian wine for my wife to have in the stateroom.  Also, you can ask your Butler (other server) to bring you a drink or wine to your stateroom.  We never did that, and always had wine from the ports is the reason why.  

I also felt like the Oceania Penthouse was equal to the a NCL Haven Penthouse Suite in the Haven Proper.  Also included are soft drinks replenished daily based on what you like.  

Again, you can ask me any question.