The auto tip is now expected, no longer seen as a tip but part of wages.
Next comes, how much is enough in the envelope or palm.
Many have said, including me, it seems to never be enough, as there is a competition for who can leave more.
I wish I could say, I feel good after extra tipping but more and more it has become a guessing game of how much should I give in order for it to be enough, in order for me to feel good.
Of course I see no solution. There will always be upmanship.
You can see it even here, those who say how good they feel after leaving an undisclosed amount in the envelope or palm.