We have 5 kids, we’d get a balcony and put 1 kid in it, and the other 4 in the connecting room. We were way closer than when they were in their bedrooms at home. If 1 of them was fooling around on the balcony, we wouldn’t know. Heck, at home if they decided to sneak out, we wouldn’t know. I’m a very risk adverse person, I tell my kids not to drive when it’s snowing or raining heavily, When my son goes hiking and kayaking alone, I ask for his location. However, once they’re teens, I’m not with the. 24/7. As a parent I did my very best, but they are their own people (now in their 20’s).