tiamar Posted October 14, 2009 #1 Share Posted October 14, 2009 Let me preface this by saying we love cruising. DH and I took our first cruise in 1995 on a little no name cruise line and were hooked although we haven't been able to start cruising again until this year. Now we are trying to take my inlaws with us and are facing some hesitation on their part. My MIL is super active and never sits still. She works out every day and although retired, picked up a part-time job because she just isn't one to not work. My FIL, on the other hand, loved the day he retired. He is not active nor cares to be. We talked to each of them separately about all the great things to do on a cruise (excursions, activities on the ship, dancing, dining, etc.), but for her it seems to sedate (I know! :D) and for him it seems to active. I thought if we could try a short cruise for them that would satisfy them both, it would be a great introduction into the world of cruising. Any ideas are certainly appreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr green Posted October 14, 2009 #2 Share Posted October 14, 2009 A short cruise on HAL, or Princess might be best. Make sure that a time is booked when schools are in, and there are no long week ends in sight. Lastly do not select an inside cabin. Good luck, john Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cb at sea Posted October 14, 2009 #3 Share Posted October 14, 2009 Let them decide if they want to go....don't force them into it. Yes, it's true the most likely will love it, but sometimes, when you go on and on and on about something, the folks you're trying to convince just get worn out by your talk and will not enjoy it, just out of spite! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paul929207 Posted October 14, 2009 #4 Share Posted October 14, 2009 The nice thing about cruising is that you can do as much or as little as you want. Your MIL can go to the gym each morning and race around the ports all day. While your father can sit on his balcony with a book. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shifra Posted October 14, 2009 #5 Share Posted October 14, 2009 Not sure how short a cruise you want but if you mean 3 or 4 days that will limit which cruiseline to pick. My suggestions would be Princess or Holland America, but their short cruise is 7 days. I understand how your MIL feels. I had to be dragged on board for my first cruise, I was positive I wouldn't enjoy it. You can see by my signature how wrong I was. :eek::D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr green Posted October 14, 2009 #6 Share Posted October 14, 2009 One more thing,IMO a first cruise should be on a ship with a max. of 2,000 passangers. john Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiamar Posted October 15, 2009 Author #7 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Wow! This is why I love CC! Thank you all for giving me such great advice, including maybe to stop talking so much about our love of cruising and just give it a rest for a while. But when I do plan a cruise, I will utilize your suggestions. I could see how a big ship like the Oasis would be a turn off for them, so I am sticking to smaller ships. Thanks again! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krazy Kruizers Posted October 15, 2009 #8 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Try HAL's new Eurodam. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gertz Posted October 15, 2009 #9 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Not trying to be smart but I would leave them home. I would continue to tell them how great your cruises were but not go overboard in asking them to go. Waite till they start asking you about the cruise.:cool: If you get them to go reluctantly and they don't have a good time. Guess what.:eek: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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