Rare BillOh Posted April 11, 2017 #151 Share Posted April 11, 2017 We had "hard sells" 2 weeks ago aboard Anthem of the seas.Not the regular promenade sales. I'm speaking about being interrupted every single night when dining in MDR to sell backstage tours, restaurant packages, drink packages and so on. Sometimes twice.This happened in windjammer too. ) This is something I have never seen, but I have no reason to doubt you. I will be on the lookout my next cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
framboesa Posted April 11, 2017 #152 Share Posted April 11, 2017 This is something I have never seen, but I have no reason to doubt you. I will be on the lookout my next cruise. ;) Its not a big deal, but after 2,3, 4 times...it's anoying. And the phone messages were something new for us too...Arrived to the cabin, saw the mesage light..."Hello, we are calling from Spa/Jewllery/...." What?! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fred30 Posted April 11, 2017 #153 Share Posted April 11, 2017 "PARENTS WILL NOT HAVE SEX" You will have to try the "Balcony Club"! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteadyBetty Posted April 11, 2017 #154 Share Posted April 11, 2017 Hard sell? So what! Sure, there are staff members hawking drink packages, souvenirs, gold-by-the-inch. Where is your backbone? Smile, say no thank you and MOVE ON. If you are not interested, what do you care if the staff is hawking? It certainly shouldn't ruin your vacation nor should it be something to be embarrassed about. Geez. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grouchomarx Posted April 11, 2017 #155 Share Posted April 11, 2017 The worst example of hard sell IMO is after a spa treatment. They have you locked in this little room and want you to buy many hundreds of dollars worth of products. It ruins the whole experience. I stopped going to the spa on cruises for that reason. They REALLY don't want to take no for an answer and they make you feel like you're ruining their life by not buying something. The other hawkers I find harmless and sometimes I may be interested to know what they're offering, such as a wine tasting etc. Phone calls, I would not appreciate because it takes up your time to listen to voicemail on vacation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perditax Posted April 11, 2017 #156 Share Posted April 11, 2017 Hard sell? So what! Sure, there are staff members hawking drink packages, souvenirs, gold-by-the-inch. Where is your backbone? Smile, say no thank you and MOVE ON. If you are not interested, what do you care if the staff is hawking? It certainly shouldn't ruin your vacation nor should it be something to be embarrassed about. Geez. Is anyone actually reading the posts before getting out their pom-poms? There is no way to "say thank you and move on" when people are INTERRUPTING YOUR MDR MEAL to try to sell you something. About three posts back someone said it happened to them repeatedly in the MDR, and that's one of many reports. http://boards.cruisecritic.com/showpost.php?p=52799076&postcount=151 Although I suppose it's possible they're trying to make people "move on" ... from the MDR and to the buffet or upcharge venues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramja96 Posted April 11, 2017 #157 Share Posted April 11, 2017 Is anyone actually reading the posts before getting out their pom-poms? There is no way to "say thank you and move on" when people are INTERRUPTING YOUR MDR MEAL to try to sell you something. About three posts back someone said it happened to them repeatedly in the MDR. Trust me. A FIRM "no" and the right look with eye-to-eye contact will ensure they will never return to my table. I've done it enough times to master it. 😉 Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using Forums mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perditax Posted April 11, 2017 #158 Share Posted April 11, 2017 Trust me. A FIRM "no" and the right look with eye-to-eye contact will ensure they will never return to my table. I've done it enough times to master it. 😉 Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using Forums mobile app Oh, I'm sure it works. And it sucks that the corporation puts passengers, some of whom don't wish to be rude to staff, in the position of having to be forceful and aggressive in order to eat their meal in peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwendy Posted April 11, 2017 #159 Share Posted April 11, 2017 Oh, I'm sure it works. And it sucks that the corporation puts passengers, some of whom don't wish to be rude to staff, in the position of having to be forceful and aggressive in order to eat their meal in peace. You don't have to get rude. Just a firm thank you, I am not interested. Works for me. Daughter says it is the "teacher" voice I use. Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cel_cruise Posted April 11, 2017 #160 Share Posted April 11, 2017 Agree - the teacher voice is the right one. I call it assertive. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perditax Posted April 12, 2017 #161 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Regardless of semantics, people shouldn't have to do it on vacation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkinator99 Posted April 12, 2017 #162 Share Posted April 12, 2017 The worst example of hard sell IMO is after a spa treatment. They have you locked in this little room and want you to buy many hundreds of dollars worth of products. It ruins the whole experience. I stopped going to the spa on cruises for that reason. They REALLY don't want to take no for an answer and they make you feel like you're ruining their life by not buying something. The other hawkers I find harmless and sometimes I may be interested to know what they're offering, such as a wine tasting etc. Phone calls, I would not appreciate because it takes up your time to listen to voicemail on vacation. It's not just cruise ships. I always have a spa day when in Vegas. Always end with the special packet of items selected just for me. Yeah, nope.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
framboesa Posted April 12, 2017 #163 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Hard sell? So what! Sure, there are staff members hawking drink packages, souvenirs, gold-by-the-inch. Where is your backbone? Smile, say no thank you and MOVE ON. If you are not interested, what do you care if the staff is hawking? It certainly shouldn't ruin your vacation nor should it be something to be embarrassed about. Geez. If you are seated in the MDR having your dinner ...it's not easy to move on ;) The "staff members hawking drink packages, souvenirs, gold-by-the-inch" are not hard sell...are usual sell...traping you in you table while you are eating...every night, sometimes twice...well, don't ruin your vacation for sure, but it's not pleasant t all :) When we were at Solarium Bistro e ordered the "no charge items", after the "lobster presentation" and the waiter was "horrified"..."Really, why don't you buy the lobster...you will never find a deal like this one...you should have the lobster!" :D:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteadyBetty Posted April 12, 2017 #164 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Trust me. A FIRM "no" and the right look with eye-to-eye contact will ensure they will never return to my table. I've done it enough times to master it. 😉 Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using Forums mobile app Exactly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteadyBetty Posted April 12, 2017 #165 Share Posted April 12, 2017 If you are seated in the MDR having your dinner ...it's not easy to move on ;) The "staff members hawking drink packages, souvenirs, gold-by-the-inch" are not hard sell...are usual sell...traping you in you table while you are eating...every night, sometimes twice...well, don't ruin your vacation for sure, but it's not pleasant t all :) When we were at Solarium Bistro e ordered the "no charge items", after the "lobster presentation" and the waiter was "horrified"..."Really, why don't you buy the lobster...you will never find a deal like this one...you should have the lobster!" :D:D I refer you to ramja96 and Gwendy posts above. Read. Learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare LMaxwell Posted April 12, 2017 #166 Share Posted April 12, 2017 I refer you to ramja96 and Gwendy posts above. Read. Learn. It's still annoying. They know you are a captive audience. These vacations are becoming big week long sales pitches, much more invasive than in the past. I can easily say no to an opportunity but I do somewhat resent being pestered and interrupted. Just leave me alone to enjoy what I am doing. If I want to make a purchase I'll ask the staff or call the number on any of the 800 pieces of junkmail in my cabin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ABoatNerd Posted April 12, 2017 #167 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Hard Sell on Liberty of the Seas: This is escalating everywhere, not just on cruise ships. When doing shopping and get to the cash, I get asked to make a donation to X. Fed up. On my last cruise, Celebrity, 2 years ago, a specialty restaurant staff member was strongly marketing to an elderly couple having lunch on the sunset deck. This included leaning over and invading their personal space, very loud voice and waving promotional material. It was very disturbing to them and to us at the next table. I got up, went over, and told him to cease the shrill as it was disturbing our lunch. He gave me a glare and left, never returned. Disgusting. To end this practice, customers need to be forceful and repudiate overt attempts at marketing in venues not set up for retail activities - same as saying no to solicitations at one's home, at the store etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
framboesa Posted April 12, 2017 #168 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Read. Learn. I'm sorry for my mistake.:o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KG1924 Posted April 12, 2017 #169 Share Posted April 12, 2017 I refer you to ramja96 and Gwendy posts above. Read. Learn. You're not understanding what most are saying. It's not that people have trouble saying no, thank you. It's that a person that paid thousands of dollars on a vacation should not be interrupted multiple times during a meal trying to sell "better" meals or tours or drink packages. It's rude and very tacky. Keep it to table set ups or representatives near the location that they are promoting. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
earlydiner Posted April 12, 2017 #170 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Off the Liberty last Sunday. We were never approached during our dinner in the MDR. Nor were we approached while eating in the Windjammer at breakfast or lunch. Maybe I just have a scowl on my face. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramja96 Posted April 12, 2017 #171 Share Posted April 12, 2017 to end this practice, customers need to be forceful and repudiate overt attempts at marketing in venues not set up for retail activities - same as saying no to solicitations at one's home, at the store etc amen! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ckfred Posted April 12, 2017 #172 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Sometimes, privacy does not mean sex. My wife and I like to have time away from our son. When he was younger, it meant we could watch shows for grown ups, rather than the kid-oriented offerings on Nick and Cartoon Network. Or, we need to discuss a matter about our son without him adding his opinion, or discuss matters that he doesn't need to hear, such as finances. My problem with RC is that their teen programs are very uneven, compared to the programs for kids under 12. On the Brilliance out of Harwich two summers ago, our son had a great time in the teen program. They watched movies and did all sorts of things. The Majesty was a different story, in March of 2016. Every teen event was cancelled. I was told by a crew member that there were almost 900 passengers on the ship, under the age of 18. I saw plenty of teenagers. My guess is that there were large family groups, such as three siblings, their spouses, and all of their children. So, a lone teenager from one family had several teen cousins to hang out with. So, they skipped the teen program. Because of the lack of teen activities, our son simply wanted to stay in the cabin, reading, playing video games, or texting with his friends. It seems to me that RC encourages parents to utilize Adventure Ocean for kids under 12, but they don't push the teen program the same way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare BillOh Posted April 12, 2017 #173 Share Posted April 12, 2017 It's still annoying. They know you are a captive audience. These vacations are becoming big week long sales pitches, much more invasive than in the past. I can easily say no to an opportunity but I do somewhat resent being pestered and interrupted. Just leave me alone to enjoy what I am doing. If I want to make a purchase I'll ask the staff or call the number on any of the 800 pieces of junkmail in my cabin. I am good at walking on and have mastered the firm NO. Just ask my wife when the guy in the promenade on Majesty last fall asked if I wanted my foot analyzed. :evilsmile:. But I also would hate it when I'm sitting at dinner, I don't want to pull out the big guns too often. I guess I just agree with everybody., Unusual for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteadyBetty Posted April 12, 2017 #174 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Not all of us have a stern backbone, I suppose. The location of the hard sell makes absolutely no difference. No means no in any area of the ship. If you say no and look like you mean it, I guarantee the sell will cease. And to address the fact that the hard sell exists to begin with, I understand and agree it is definitely rude and tacky. Cruise lines don't seem to relent on this practice so that means we deal with their rudeness as best we can. I choose to with a firm "no, thank you". Moving on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legaljen1969 Posted April 12, 2017 #175 Share Posted April 12, 2017 This is exactly why the wife and I always hit the shower together when we have the kids in the same cabin. ;) You guys must be super thin, flexible and acrobatic. It's hard enough to get one person in the tube showers much less a couple trying to get in some extra movement. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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