I count myself lucky that I don't usually sail on a ship that has a different class system whereby the more you pay for a suite,the more you get included.
I find Seabourn and Silversea suit me.
I don't have any problem with getting the wine that i want as I always buy from the revenue list to avoid any disappointment.
Life is too short to drink cheap wine anyway.
I find that the head Sommelier seeks me out and we have many conversations about wine that he might recommend and wine that I might recommend to him.
There is always a solution to avoiding these small issues on a cruise ship.
Will be on board Encore next week then off to Pursuit to try her out.
What's not to like.