samshltn Posted December 15, 2013 #101 Share Posted December 15, 2013 In my experience, wearing Speedos on a cruise can cause some fairly MAJOR problems. I've been relentlessly flirted with, been bought some VERY alcoholic drinks, wolf-whistled at, pestered for training/nutrition tips... I mean, I've learned to deal with it, but it can be a little frightening for newbies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baded Posted December 15, 2013 #102 Share Posted December 15, 2013 I don't think any American will care if you wear a speedo or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topguy Posted December 27, 2013 #103 Share Posted December 27, 2013 If it is me and I have the body that would look okay or good in a speedo, I would wear one. If I look repulsive in a speedo, I wouldn't wear one, not only because of embarrassing myself, but also not offending others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navyvet8395 Posted December 27, 2013 #104 Share Posted December 27, 2013 For what i just saw on my last cruise 2 weeks ago you shoudnt be embarrassed. There were several middle aged women that were well over 300 lbs wearing 2 peice bikinis and walking around like there is nothing wrong with it... It was so bad that the stomach flab hung over so far that you couldnt tell if they had any bottoms on.... Is that a good description for ya? Why they make 2 peice suits on that size, I dont know... I have a speedo body, 6-3 155 with a toned up body. Thats Carnival cruise lines for you.... LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keithm Posted December 28, 2013 #105 Share Posted December 28, 2013 For what i just saw on my last cruise 2 weeks ago you shoudnt be embarrassed. There were several middle aged women that were well over 300 lbs wearing 2 peice bikinis and walking around like there is nothing wrong with it... It was so bad that the stomach flab hung over so far that you couldnt tell if they had any bottoms on.... Is that a good description for ya? Why they make 2 peice suits on that size, I dont know... I have a speedo body, 6-3 155 with a toned up body. Thats Carnival cruise lines for you.... LOL. I saw a guy about 25 years ago who was easily that fat(even more so)We were in an ice cream parlor & he walked in. No shirt, just this tiny speedo(more like a thong, actually)Nowhere near any body of water. I'm sorry, but I went into hysterics & had to walk out. I never could see his reason. The manager made him leave to at least put on a shirt,which he never did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keithm Posted December 28, 2013 #106 Share Posted December 28, 2013 In my experience, wearing Speedos on a cruise can cause some fairly MAJOR problems. I've been relentlessly flirted with, been bought some VERY alcoholic drinks, wolf-whistled at, pestered for training/nutrition tips... I mean, I've learned to deal with it, but it can be a little frightening for newbies. If your icon is any indication, that's just what happens when you're too cute! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adidas4fun Posted December 28, 2013 #107 Share Posted December 28, 2013 I used to be a skinny (but defined) twink. Those days are long gone. But the BF still enjoys seeing me in a speedo and I enjoy wearing them. To all the rest - take more dramamine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coyboy1971 Posted January 5, 2014 #108 Share Posted January 5, 2014 Of course! Wear a speedo and enjoy yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kelleherdl Posted January 11, 2014 #109 Share Posted January 11, 2014 As always this topic raises a lot of discussion and still mystifies me. I'm straight and 62. I have worn Speedos since I was a young stud naval officer. With kids who were constantly 'embarrassed, that their dad wore Speedos even to the neighborhood pool. About 8 years ago I was hit with Type 2 diabetes and my weight soared. Speedos were out sadly. Over the last six months I lost over 80 pounds, have been back in the gym and no longer on meds.... We have a cruise coming in March. The Speedos are out of the storage box, even got a couple of new pairs. I very well will be the only man on the cruise, on the ship and at Half Moon Cay, in Speedos; but so be it. We are sailing with some friends who will surely kid me, but they will certainly also celebrate with me my health turnaround. I like the feel and the look of Speedos. Notice I did not say, OTHERS, MY KIDS like the feel and look. Nor do I take that as the determinant of whether I will wear them. Dennis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navyvet8395 Posted January 11, 2014 #110 Share Posted January 11, 2014 Its funny how society will allow women of any body type to wear 2 piece or bikinis at any public place, beach, pool, cruise, whatever. And as soon as a guy wears a speedo, even young in shape guys (to which they dont at least from the USA), it becomes a major issue and people say "you shouldnt wear that on a public beach due to women and kids". Its no differant then women in bikinis, expecially the out of shape ones. I wear Speedos, been wearing them for very long time. I saw a comment on here that I read that someone was complaining about someone was going to wear a speedo at a public beach where his kid and wife will be at... SO WHAT.. Its made for swimming.. GET OVER IT PEOPLE... What bothers me about this person, is he is married with a kid yet he hangs out on the Gay forums on CC..... That I see a problem... To close this comment, I will continue to wear them as long as I still have my 6-3, 160lb tanned, smooth toned up body.... LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kelleherdl Posted January 11, 2014 #111 Share Posted January 11, 2014 Have you heard of the search function on message boards. One does not need to hang out on any board. You will also receive alerts that a post on a relevant topic of interest has been posted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
satxdiver Posted January 13, 2014 #112 Share Posted January 13, 2014 As always this topic raises a lot of discussion and still mystifies me. I'm straight and 62. I have worn Speedos since I was a young stud naval officer. With kids who were constantly 'embarrassed, that their dad wore Speedos even to the neighborhood pool. About 8 years ago I was hit with Type 2 diabetes and my weight soared. Speedos were out sadly. Over the last six months I lost over 80 pounds, have been back in the gym and no longer on meds.... We have a cruise coming in March. The Speedos are out of the storage box, even got a couple of new pairs. I very well will be the only man on the cruise, on the ship and at Half Moon Cay, in Speedos; but so be it. We are sailing with some friends who will surely kid me, but they will certainly also celebrate with me my health turnaround. I like the feel and the look of Speedos. Notice I did not say, OTHERS, MY KIDS like the feel and look. Nor do I take that as the determinant of whether I will wear them. Dennis This is mainly a US problem. The Aussies, Brazilians and others see no problem here. Men wear what we in the US call speedo swim suits no matter the body shape. Personally I have no problem with any male wearing speedo. As for children, they are embarassed by their parents many times for many different reasons. It is part of growing up! For my part we need to ban wearing what appears to be too short pants (aka board shorts) on a growing teenager in a pool as they are dirt carriers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billybeachboy Posted January 13, 2014 #113 Share Posted January 13, 2014 I always wear speedo style swimwear, I want to get a decent sun tan & long shorts won't help with that. Speedos also dry far quicker after swimming than shorts do. I'm in my fifties & whilst slim I know I don't have a perfect body, but I'm not covering up just because a few people will tut at my form. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaerobear Posted January 25, 2014 #114 Share Posted January 25, 2014 I have to say anyone Gay or Str8 can feel free to post on this subject and I applaud you for losing the weight and getting back into your speedo. I have just lost 102 pounds, down to 199, would love to wear a speedo, but have to do lots of toning up first (hard to do with a 70 yr old well used body, omg did I say that) Anyway, I say "speedo away" and don't let ANYONE sway your choices in wardrobe. AAero Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bhopal21 Posted January 27, 2014 #115 Share Posted January 27, 2014 AAerobear Congratulations!! That is a great accomplishment.:D Mike:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaerobear Posted January 27, 2014 #116 Share Posted January 27, 2014 Thanks, Still have 30 more to go, but will make it in a few months. But still love to see all the men who choose to wear Speedos.. ED Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Surfguyxxx Posted February 10, 2014 #117 Share Posted February 10, 2014 For what i just saw on my last cruise 2 weeks ago you shoudnt be embarrassed. There were several middle aged women that were well over 300 lbs wearing 2 peice bikinis and walking around like there is nothing wrong with it... It was so bad that the stomach flab hung over so far that you couldnt tell if they had any bottoms on.... Is that a good description for ya? Why they make 2 peice suits on that size, I dont know... I have a speedo body, 6-3 155 with a toned up body. Thats Carnival cruise lines for you.... LOL. That is quite the visual :( However, if you want and can were one; great. I swam for years on a competitive team and it was standard then. These days, as much as I would "like" to wear one, it's just not going to happen. Ahhhhhh, middle age :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triock Posted February 10, 2014 #118 Share Posted February 10, 2014 I always wear a speedo, and see no reason to not wear on board a ship, nearly all the men I have seen on the beach in Miami over the several years I have been visiting Straight or Gay have worn Speedos and some even less!!!! So IMO I for one shall continue to wear one on my first Cruise in Nov to the Caribbean, after all there is no difference between my wearing a speedo and a woman wearing some skimpy hanky and passing that off as a Bikini!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colombiangirl Posted February 21, 2014 #119 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Even the most incredibly sexy bodies don't look good in speedos. Trunks are so much better and leave a little something to the imagination. So in my very humble opinion...not to speedo. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilghallinsf Posted February 22, 2014 #120 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Wear what you are comfortable in. I like a square cut trunk and feel comfortable in it, usually. This time not because I have put on weight. However, my partner wears speedo style because he is very fit. He is also latino and most people assume we are european. No one ever looks and if they do they are typically polite enough not to make us uncomfortable. We have even fallen asleep with our arms around each other on a lounger and never felt uncomfortable. We also live in SF and pretty much ignore anyone who would make us feel that way too... LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triock Posted February 22, 2014 #121 Share Posted February 22, 2014 (edited) Wear what you are comfortable in. I like a square cut trunk and feel comfortable in it, usually. This time not because I have put on weight. However, my partner wears speedo style because he is very fit. He is also latino and most people assume we are european. No one ever looks and if they do they are typically polite enough not to make us uncomfortable. We have even fallen asleep with our arms around each other on a lounger and never felt uncomfortable. We also live in SF and pretty much ignore anyone who would make us feel that way too... LOL I agree, NEVER let others tell you what to wear, be yourself and be confident with who you are, afterall, your style is just a tiny part of who you are, people are far too hung up on how others look rather than just accepting that we are all individuals with our own unique style and persona. I wear what i like, when i like and how i like.........within reason, i'm not that brave, lol Edited February 22, 2014 by Triock spelling erroes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bradox50 Posted February 23, 2014 #122 Share Posted February 23, 2014 Last time i wear a trunk swimsuit on a cruise, a Guy said...WHAT THE ****, i heard his wife says that i look good with my swimsuit, since that date, i prefer to wear long short wwhile i'm on board.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilghallinsf Posted February 24, 2014 #123 Share Posted February 24, 2014 I think it depends on how comfortable you period. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaerobear Posted February 24, 2014 #124 Share Posted February 24, 2014 I think that speedos look GREAT on anyone who feels they have the body to wear them. Yes, it is up to YOU. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, ESPECIALLY a woman. Just remember what atrocious outfits they parade around the pools wearing and then have the nerve to criticize men for wearing speedos. I am not misogynist, but sure have definite feelings about being told what to wear and what not to wear by the opposite sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boytjie Posted February 25, 2014 #125 Share Posted February 25, 2014 We were staying at a gay resort after our RSVP cruise and today there was this very big bear in a speedo... power to him. :). I don't really see what the issue would be with him in a speedo vs board shorts: he is still a big bear! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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