Rare NutsAboutGolf Posted September 7, 2016 #1 Share Posted September 7, 2016 My parents got us the ultimate romance package as a gift for POA cruise...It includes many items including a 25mins couples massage and two specialty dining meals that include a bottle of wine for each and one for your room. It should be a very enjoyable experience, right? It was upsells at every corner. Booking the massage appt:"it's ONLY 25mins of a massage", offered to us an UPGRADE to have a longer massage for a fee of course, we declined...UPSELL attempt #2, for ONLY another $10/person (before tax I'm sure) we could UPGRADE to using the spa facilities for the full day, we declined. This wasn't an upsell but they reminded us that the massage gratuities are NOT included in the package. We arrive for our appt, UPSELL #3/#4, same longer massage re-pitch and facilities re-pitched, we pass...Get the massage, when over my masseuse tells me my shoulders are messed up and that I'm in luck because if I book a couple more appts during this cruise he can fix them! Same with my new wife, tells her back is "a little tight", but more appts can fix them! That was UPSELL #5/#6...Upon cashing out at the front desk #7 was "offering" to book future massages, #8 was "reminding" us that the $10/person facility offer is still valid and #9 they have (overpriced) products available for us to purchase. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NLH Arizona Posted September 7, 2016 #2 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Sounds like every spa I've been to on every cruise line I've cruised on. I just say no thank you, I'm not interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sauer-kraut Posted September 7, 2016 #3 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Why would you be surprised at aggressive sales pitches? Usually when filling out the spa questionaire just write "No Sales Please" or make it known before getting comfy for the massage that you are not interested in any other services, thank you. Sorry your experience wasn't all you had hoped, I hope the rest of the cruise was a fun experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjkacmom Posted September 7, 2016 #4 Share Posted September 7, 2016 That's the norm - it's an outside company, the employees make commission on upsells and products. Just let them know ahead of time not to ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDougOut Posted September 7, 2016 #5 Share Posted September 7, 2016 25mins is too short for a massage. I would have bit on some of those upsells... longer massage & access to thermal suite. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cb at sea Posted September 7, 2016 #6 Share Posted September 7, 2016 That's how they make their money...upsells..hard-sells, etc. Just say, "No, Thanks!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlelulu01 Posted September 7, 2016 #7 Share Posted September 7, 2016 So did you tip and if so how much? Kind of hard to figure out what the tip is when the massage part is lumped in with all the other things. I got the package on our upcoming cruise. I was told that the 18% tip on the dinners and 25 mins massage was included. There's no 25 minute massage for sale on the spa menu so nothing to price compare. I was thinking about leaving something extra if my experience is enjoyable and relaxing but a 9x's sales pitch within 25 minutes time span doesn't sound too relaxing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
triptolemus Posted September 7, 2016 #8 Share Posted September 7, 2016 25mins is too short for a massage. I would have bit on some of those upsells... longer massage & access to thermal suite. Ding! We have a winner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kathybelcher2433 Posted September 7, 2016 #9 Share Posted September 7, 2016 25mins is too short for a massage. I would have bit on some of those upsells... longer massage & access to thermal suite. Me, too. Those sound pretty reasonable. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dporter Posted September 7, 2016 #10 Share Posted September 7, 2016 I always let them know when I check in that I am not interested any any extras and I am not interested in any products. They always respect that and never try to upsell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hawkeyetlse Posted September 7, 2016 #11 Share Posted September 7, 2016 I got the package on our upcoming cruise. I was told that the 18% tip on the dinners and 25 mins massage was included.Did you get that writing? It doesn't say either way in the description of the package on the NCL website (or in Explore & Plan if you try to order it).Those sound pretty reasonable.I agree, $10 for a thermal suite day pass is a steal (they could have gone earlier in the day, and after the massage). The OP didn't say how much they were asking for to extend the massage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marelind Posted September 7, 2016 #12 Share Posted September 7, 2016 The first massage I got on Norwegian 8 years ago the masseuse put the hard sell on me for products at the end of my massage, basically telling me that I was getting old and if I didn't buy their products or book more services I was going to be old, ugly and unhealthy. :mad: On my next massage intake form, at the bottom, I wrote "Do not try to sell me on anything. If I want something I will ask!" Now I let the masseuse know in the beginning that if I am interested in any of the products I will ask. I have not had a problem since then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlelulu01 Posted September 7, 2016 #13 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Did you get that writing? It doesn't say either way in the description of the package on the NCL website (or in Explore & Plan if you try to order it).I agree, $10 for a thermal suite day pass is a steal (they could have gone earlier in the day, and after the massage). The OP didn't say how much they were asking for to extend the massage. No I didn't. I called and ordered, paid for and was told. It makes sense to me that when given as a gift, the receiver is not charged extra just to receive a gift. My understanding is that 18% on dinners and other gifts Is paid at time of purchase and thus can retain its, "gift" status vs turn into an extra fee burden. The way it was explained to me is that I can give extra above DSC and various package fees to anyone I feel has gone above and beyond to make my vacation special but that I am not expected or mandated to give extra above what I am pre charged for nor are additional tips expected. If I am expected to give 18% + on a massage with ? $ value to begin with and expected to pay an additional 18% + on my romance package dinners it is a very different product than I thought. I was figuring an extra cash tip for good service to those I choose to tip depending on service. I'm not expecting to get a bill for a le bistro dinner and have to pay an additional $20-30 just for one dinner tip a la carte priced when the romance pkg says the dinner is included. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare BirdTravels Posted September 7, 2016 #14 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Booking the massage appt:"it's ONLY 25mins of a massage", offered to us an UPGRADE to have a longer massage for a fee of course, we declined...UPSELL attempt #2, for ONLY another $10/person (before tax I'm sure) we could UPGRADE to using the spa facilities for the full day, we declined. This wasn't an upsell but they reminded us that the massage gratuities are NOT included in the package. We arrive for our appt, UPSELL #3/#4, same longer massage re-pitch and facilities re-pitched, we pass...Get the massage, when over my masseuse tells me my shoulders are messed up and that I'm in luck because if I book a couple more appts during this cruise he can fix them! Same with my new wife, tells her back is "a little tight", but more appts can fix them! That was UPSELL #5/#6...Upon cashing out at the front desk #7 was "offering" to book future massages, #8 was "reminding" us that the $10/person facility offer is still valid and #9 they have (overpriced) products available for us to purchase. This is normal and expected. Nothing to get your feathers ruffled. I never buy anything, but find it interesting on what they have to sell. It's their job. Just like the cashier at McDonalds upselling you on the the two apple pies for $1. Or suggesting that you "need" that large french fry. Respectfully decline and see what else they have in their basket. Enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMH15 Posted September 7, 2016 #15 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Sounds like every spa I've been to on every cruise line I've cruised on. I just say no thank you, I'm not interested. This. Totally agree. Just smile and say no thanks. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMH15 Posted September 7, 2016 #16 Share Posted September 7, 2016 25mins is too short for a massage. I would have bit on some of those upsells... longer massage & access to thermal suite. I like your style. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMH15 Posted September 7, 2016 #17 Share Posted September 7, 2016 No I didn't. I called and ordered, paid for and was told. It makes sense to me that when given as a gift, the receiver is not charged extra just to receive a gift. My understanding is that 18% on dinners and other gifts Is paid at time of purchase and thus can retain its, "gift" status vs turn into an extra fee burden. The way it was explained to me is that I can give extra above DSC and various package fees to anyone I feel has gone above and beyond to make my vacation special but that I am not expected or mandated to give extra above what I am pre charged for nor are additional tips expected. If I am expected to give 18% + on a massage with ? $ value to begin with and expected to pay an additional 18% + on my romance package dinners it is a very different product than I thought. I was figuring an extra cash tip for good service to those I choose to tip depending on service. I'm not expecting to get a bill for a le bistro dinner and have to pay an additional $20-30 just for one dinner tip a la carte priced when the romance pkg says the dinner is included. Guess what? Spa is not part of the DSC. I hope you tip the poor masseuse. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
easyboy Posted September 7, 2016 #18 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Guess what? Spa is not part of the DSC. I hope you tip the poor masseuse. I agree, as in other cruise lines. A reason for the aggressive marketing by all staff.' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlelulu01 Posted September 7, 2016 #19 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Guess what? Spa is not part of the DSC. I hope you tip the poor masseuse. Sent from my iPhone using Forums I was well aware the DSC does not include spa services. I hope I tip the poor masseuse too! But on a package that includes the dinners, flowers, massages..... And the massages have no price assigned, on what cost do I tip this person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMH15 Posted September 7, 2016 #20 Share Posted September 7, 2016 I was well aware the DSC does not include spa services. I hope I tip the poor masseuse too! But on a package that includes the dinners, flowers, massages..... And the massages have no price assigned, on what cost do I tip this person? Based on my extensive massage experience [emoji2]I know cheap places/chair massage might charge a buck a minute. Nice spas about twice that. So, $50 service. Calculates to $9. If it was awesome I'd round to $10. I would not tip less than $7. That is just what I would do. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMH15 Posted September 7, 2016 #21 Share Posted September 7, 2016 (edited) I agree, as in other cruise lines. A reason for the aggressive marketing by all staff.' I have probably had many more massages than anyone on this board,(sea and land). It never becomes agressive for me. I kindly nip it in the bud. I have never been hounded. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Edited September 7, 2016 by DMH15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjbdtz Posted September 7, 2016 #22 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Asking if you would like fries with that, is a reminder, as much as it is an upsell. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kathybelcher2433 Posted September 7, 2016 #23 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Asking if you would like fries with that, is a reminder, as much as it is an upsell. . Much like a Public Service Announcement! Sent from my iPhone using Forums Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlelulu01 Posted September 7, 2016 #24 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Based on my extensive massage experience [emoji2]I know cheap places/chair massage might charge a buck a minute. Nice spas about twice that. So, $50 service. Calculates to $9. If it was awesome I'd round to $10. I would not tip less than $7. That is just what I would do. Sent from my iPhone using Forums Thanks. Pretty much what I was figuring. Still a little perplexed on the romance package included dinners. We also have a dining package that we already paid 18% on. I guess they'll let us know which meals we need to pay an additional 18% when the bill comes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hawkeyetlse Posted September 7, 2016 #25 Share Posted September 7, 2016 Thanks. Pretty much what I was figuring. Still a little perplexed on the romance package included dinners. We also have a dining package that we already paid 18% on. I guess they'll let us know which meals we need to pay an additional 18% when the bill comes. I have never heard of them presenting anyone with a bill just for the 18% after a free or pre-paid specialty dinner. And I'm quite certain that if it ever happened, it would be reported on here 30 seconds later. Spa services should be the same: 18% is added to the bill automatically. In cases where there is no bill, it's appropriate to consider giving them a tip, but it's inappropriate for them to sollicit tips. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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