Rare electro Posted August 27, 2009 #1 Share Posted August 27, 2009 I've read a lot of post about men in the military wearing their dress uniform on formal nights. Has anyone ever seen a woman wear her military dress uniform on a cruise? What would you think of it? Lois Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curt Jerome Wild Posted August 27, 2009 #2 Share Posted August 27, 2009 I've read a lot of post about men in the military wearing their dress uniform on formal nights. Has anyone ever seen a woman wear her military dress uniform on a cruise? What would you think of it? Lois Lois, Formal Uniforms and Mess Dress are considered formal for both men and women. The "rules" and guidelines are Unisex in this instance. So, if you decide to do it - go right ahead... And if I see you or any other man or woman wearing this on formal night, I will thank you for your service and buy you a drink.;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magandab Posted August 27, 2009 #3 Share Posted August 27, 2009 As a former Marine, I can say that while my dress blues would have been completely appropriate, I didn't even wear them to the Marine Birthday Ball, as there are so few chances to dress up in a formal dress, that I chose to go that way. Now that I'm older, I might well opt for the uniform if I was still active duty, though I'd hate to pack it for a cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cb at sea Posted August 27, 2009 #4 Share Posted August 27, 2009 While it's appropriate, it's not very "festive"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magandab Posted August 27, 2009 #5 Share Posted August 27, 2009 While it's appropriate, it's not very "festive"... So it's okay and "festive" enough for a man, but not for a woman? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
critterfriend Posted August 27, 2009 #6 Share Posted August 27, 2009 I say wear it proudly! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy ks Posted August 27, 2009 #7 Share Posted August 27, 2009 I say wear it proudly! I wholeheartedly agree...and I think it is perfectly festive for a woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshchristine100700 Posted August 27, 2009 #8 Share Posted August 27, 2009 I say wear it! You should be just as proud of your service as any male counterpart would be! Its probably not seen as often because the sheer volume of male versus female in most services though. As for festive?? um...yeah...i'll leave my comments alone from that comment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
critterchick Posted August 27, 2009 #9 Share Posted August 27, 2009 It's not "girly.":p But wear it proudly and in good health! We'll buy you a drink, too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Mtn Posted August 27, 2009 #10 Share Posted August 27, 2009 My vote - although it is entirely up to you - GO FOR IT - PROUDLY ! And thanks for your service to our country. I'd love to meet you, share a few minutes at your convenience, and hopefully share a cocktail !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TakeMeAway1001 Posted August 27, 2009 #11 Share Posted August 27, 2009 Absolutely wear it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDHALFAN Posted August 28, 2009 #12 Share Posted August 28, 2009 While it's appropriate, it's not very "festive"... Have you actually ever seen any of these Formal Uniforms or Mess Dress? They may not be "festive", as in covered with sequins, but they are elegant and the women look every bit as good as the men do in their uniforms. They certainly look a lot better put together than some civilian women who don't seem to get the idea of "Formal Dress". I noticed that female officers who work aboard the HAL ships dress up in their Dress Uniforms for formal nights and they look very classy and elegant. Valerie:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melthemadhatter Posted August 28, 2009 #13 Share Posted August 28, 2009 I say wear it! It would look very sharp and classy. Thank you for your service! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samiam0403 Posted August 28, 2009 #14 Share Posted August 28, 2009 I wore mine on my first cruise back from Baghdad in 2007 after DH talked me into wearing it. (He also wore his.) Long story short, he got lots of 'thanks for your service Senior!' while I got funny looks and asked where the dining room was. Never again for this chicky. From now on, I'll save the room in the suitcase for another dress or more shoes. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare electro Posted August 28, 2009 Author #15 Share Posted August 28, 2009 Thanks everyone. I appreciate all the nice comments. Too bad you all weren't sailing on the same cruise as me, I could save a lot of money on drinks:D Btw, I'm in the Canadian Air Force, not US so you could thank me for serving your neighbour's country:o Lois Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDHALFAN Posted August 29, 2009 #16 Share Posted August 29, 2009 Thanks everyone.I appreciate all the nice comments. Btw, I'm in the Canadian Air Force, not US so you could thank me for serving your neighbour's country:o Lois We thank you Canadians, the British, the Australians, the New Zealanders and all our other allies every day for your service. It is because of your service that we civilians can sleep easy in our beds at night - but it is a joint effort - not one of our countries could do it alone. God bless and have a wonderful cruise. Valerie:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pjsm50 Posted August 29, 2009 #17 Share Posted August 29, 2009 Wear it proudly. Like you, I am a woman in the Canadian Air Force. I have worn my Mess Kit on a cruise and received a number of postive comments. BTW, I think it is an elegant uniform and I do feel dressed up when I wear it. It does take more room to pack, but if you have the space go for it. Pamela Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SA Traveler Posted August 29, 2009 #18 Share Posted August 29, 2009 I wore mine on my first cruise back from Baghdad in 2007 after DH talked me into wearing it. (He also wore his.) Long story short, he got lots of 'thanks for your service Senior!' while I got funny looks and asked where the dining room was. Never again for this chicky. From now on, I'll save the room in the suitcase for another dress or more shoes. :D How sad! I agree it is more than appropriate for male or female and I too say thanks to both of you for your service. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donaldsc Posted August 30, 2009 #19 Share Posted August 30, 2009 As a former Marine, I can say that while my dress blues would have been completely appropriate, I didn't even wear them to the Marine Birthday Ball, as there are so few chances to dress up in a formal dress, that I chose to go that way. Now that I'm older, I might well opt for the uniform if I was still active duty, though I'd hate to pack it for a cruise. Does the Marine dress uniform include a sword? That might make things interesting, especially at the TSA security site. DON Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
airlink diva Posted September 3, 2009 #20 Share Posted September 3, 2009 Thanks everyone.I appreciate all the nice comments. Too bad you all weren't sailing on the same cruise as me, I could save a lot of money on drinks:D Btw, I'm in the Canadian Air Force, not US so you could thank me for serving your neighbour's country:o Lois I think that nothing is wrong with either a female or male wearing their Military dress uniform for formal nights. You are honoring everyone when wearing it!! On my cruise last year, at my dining table sat Ron. He was retired from the Royal Canadian Air Force. He fought in the battle of Britain and also in Asia. He worn his medals to dinner on formal night. I and others at the table were eager to learn about his service and the medals. Below is a picture of his medals. Wear your uniform with pride girlfriend!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuvok37 Posted October 25, 2009 #21 Share Posted October 25, 2009 This is a great thread. I am in the Cdn Army, and my mess dress is bright red so very, very festive. Lots of positive comments - except one from a redneck doughead - "Canada has a military?" I'll never do it again as the airline lost my luggage and I was panicked about losing my uniform for a few days. All turned out well, but it stays home now whenever we cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brown_eyedgal Posted October 26, 2009 #22 Share Posted October 26, 2009 I wore mine on my first cruise back from Baghdad in 2007 after DH talked me into wearing it. (He also wore his.) Long story short, he got lots of 'thanks for your service Senior!' while I got funny looks and asked where the dining room was. Never again for this chicky. From now on, I'll save the room in the suitcase for another dress or more shoes. :D Guessing you are both in the Navy? Or at least your DH? I was debating wearing mine...(DH and I are in the Navy, he is a chief and I am a E-5) and then I read your post. I don't believe I will be taking it, but I could change my mind I guess. The last time I wore my uniform in public like that I was in an airport and people kept asking where the bathrooms were...;)...I totally feel your pain... DH is definitely wearing his, it is our 10 yr anniversary cruise and he wore his uniform in our wedding pics, he was an E-3 and now he is an E-7...the pics will look good on the wall... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cozzette2 Posted October 26, 2009 #23 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Since there are 2 formal nights how about the uniform one night and something totally different for the other. Again thank you so much for doing tne hard work of keeping us safe. Kris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasue Posted October 26, 2009 #24 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Since there are 2 formal nights how about the uniform one night and something totally different for the other.Again thank you so much for doing tne hard work of keeping us safe. Kris I agree totally with Cozette!! First formal night....Wear your uniform with pride... I'm sure you'll look wonderfully smart... and you'll recieve some great comments (and free drinks)!! Second formal night..... go girly.... it's nice to be girly sometimes.... best of both worlds!! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samiam0403 Posted October 27, 2009 #25 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Guessing you are both in the Navy? Or at least your DH? I was debating wearing mine...(DH and I are in the Navy, he is a chief and I am a E-5) and then I read your post. I don't believe I will be taking it, but I could change my mind I guess. The last time I wore my uniform in public like that I was in an airport and people kept asking where the bathrooms were...;)...I totally feel your pain... DH is definitely wearing his, it is our 10 yr anniversary cruise and he wore his uniform in our wedding pics, he was an E-3 and now he is an E-7...the pics will look good on the wall... LOL - nope, both AF. :D What killed me was the eyeroll and flounce away I got when I said I didn't know (since we were in the other dining room...). But I have been talked into wearing my uniform on the 2nd of our 2 upcoming cruises. *sigh* We're going with my parents and I deploy for a year 2 weeks after we get home, sooooooo. Yeah. :rolleyes: And congrats on the 10th anniversary! I'm sure you'll have a great time! And yes, you'll get some great pics I'm sure! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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