cwbabe48 Posted January 22, 2013 #1 Share Posted January 22, 2013 Anyone just off a Holland cruise, please please clarify if a man is denied entry into the MDR on formal nights if he does NOT have a jacket on, but a very nice shirt and tie? Confused and nervous, all packed with no jacket Thanks Marcia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krazy Kruizers Posted January 22, 2013 #2 Share Posted January 22, 2013 It's a mixed bag. We have seen the dining room assistant hand a jacket to man on a formal night. And in a few minutes another man walked in without a jacket and no one stopped him. Can't predict what will happen on your cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sail7seas Posted January 22, 2013 #3 Share Posted January 22, 2013 It is very inconsistent from ship to ship and actually from night to night. We have done a great many b-to-b's and on one week we may have seen a gentleman permitted in the dining room with shirt and jacket with no tie but the next week, we have seen them turned away with no jacket. If you know you want to dine in MDR on formal nights, plan to dress to code and you will not have to worry. NO ONE here can promise you that you will be permitted entry to MDR on formal night if you are not dressed to HAL's code. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorMom37 Posted January 22, 2013 #4 Share Posted January 22, 2013 On the 14 night Zaandam this month we saw no one turned away from the main dining room on formal night. There were men there without jackets - they had nice slacks, tie, nice shirt. Most men did wear some kind of jacket on formal nights, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Northshorecruisers Posted January 22, 2013 #5 Share Posted January 22, 2013 You can always take your chances - but as mentioned above if you're not dressed to "code" you can be turned away. Another option if you don't want the bulkiness of packing a suit is to rent. My husband always rents a tux for formal nights. It's in the cabin when you arrive and just leave it there when you leave. Not sure, but the site might even rent suits. We like to dress for formal nights and it's part of our cruise experience. I like the ambiance of the ship on formal nights. I understand that other people don't like to dress up, and that's fine too. It's not going to ruin my cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sail7seas Posted January 22, 2013 #6 Share Posted January 22, 2013 If you fly and don't wish the weight/bulkiness to pack a jacket, the gentleman can fly in it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamaofami Posted January 22, 2013 #7 Share Posted January 22, 2013 DH always wears his jacket when we fly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tangerinebunny Posted January 22, 2013 #8 Share Posted January 22, 2013 No one can predict, just keep in mind that if your spouse is turned away, you both knew before hand that you weren't following the code. The fault will lie with you and not the staff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brucory Posted January 22, 2013 #9 Share Posted January 22, 2013 We watched a conversation in front of us when a gent turned up with no jacket. It was quite embarrassing, though the maitre de tried to be discreet. The guy's wife turned red, took all the blame and said she had not realised. The maitre de said he could provide one, but they opted to return to their room instead. I didnt see them come back so maybe they ate elsewhere. :(:(:( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Typhoon1 Posted January 22, 2013 #10 Share Posted January 22, 2013 It's all a matter of who is minding the door on any given evening. Some of the Dining Room Managers could care less about dress code. (especially the younger ones) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iceleven Posted January 22, 2013 #11 Share Posted January 22, 2013 I am just amused that so many people even pay attention to what is going on at the maitre d's station. It appears as if it is a part of the evening entertainment on "formal nights." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
innlady1 Posted January 23, 2013 #12 Share Posted January 23, 2013 It's all a matter of who is minding the door on any given evening. Some of the Dining Room Managers could care less about dress code. (especially the younger ones) ...and others are real sticklers. It's the luck of the draw. Better to be prepared. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruz chic Posted January 23, 2013 #13 Share Posted January 23, 2013 I am just amused that so many people even pay attention to what is going on at the maitre d's station. It appears as if it is a part of the evening entertainment on "formal nights." Did anyone post that? I guess I missed it. People notice stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wakepatrol Posted January 23, 2013 #14 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Who doesn't own a jacket?:rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orangeguy Posted January 23, 2013 #15 Share Posted January 23, 2013 My recommendation would be to take the jacket! I can state that when we sailed on the Westerdam I hung my jacket up in the hotel room the night before we left for the ship. The next morning in the excitement of leaving for our cruise, I made the mistake of leaving my suit in the hotel room. :rolleyes: Before dinner on the formal night, I went to the MDR and spoke with the maitre d, who offered to loan me a jacket, but the ship unfortunately didn't have one that fit. I wore my shirt and tie with a pair of slacks, but I felt out of place in a dining room where every other man in the room was wearing a jacket. So yes it is possible to do, but its not a guarantee. Take the jacket, better safe than sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PathfinderEss Posted January 23, 2013 #16 Share Posted January 23, 2013 I'd rather pack the jacket or wear it when flying, then be embarrass at the door to the MDR by not having it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sopwith Posted January 23, 2013 #17 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Okay, you've got me wound up here. The dress code is there for a reason. Most people are in favour of it. If you are in doubt, just look at the number of people who arrive in attire that is unquestionably formal. They are looking forward to the formal experience, and that experience includes everyone in the room. If you don't wish to participate, fair enough. There are several other alternatives available to you. But please don't think it is acceptable to push the boundaries just to see what you can get away with. That is just plain discourteous and disrespectful. It is even more discourteous and disrespectful to put the dining room staff in a position where they have to make a judgement call and thereby create tension for all concerned, just to preserve the dignity and decorum of the occasion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michmike Posted January 23, 2013 #18 Share Posted January 23, 2013 if he's a MARRIED man, whatever happens will be HIS fault... not just re the jacket in the dining room, but thruout the trip *S* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancal Posted January 23, 2013 #19 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Take a jacket and satisfy the code or simply eat in the Lido. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTDesign11 Posted January 23, 2013 #20 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Bring a dark sport coat and tie to avoid a potential problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ineke Posted January 23, 2013 #21 Share Posted January 23, 2013 DH went into the MDR to tell our table partners we were unable to join them due to a terrible cold. He was handed a jacket in a very pleasant manner, until he explained he was just going to pass on a message and then leave again. I like that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spacepotatoes Posted January 23, 2013 #22 Share Posted January 23, 2013 On the Zuiderdam in July, it was either a jacket or a tie. You didn't have to have both but you did have to be wearing at least one of those things. Men with neither were either given a jacket or turned away. My husband had a tie on and was prepared to take a loaner jacket, but he didn't end up being given one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sail7seas Posted January 23, 2013 #23 Share Posted January 23, 2013 On the Zuiderdam in July, it was either a jacket or a tie. You didn't have to have both but you did have to be wearing at least one of those things. Men with neither were either given a jacket or turned away. My husband had a tie on and was prepared to take a loaner jacket, but he didn't end up being given one. Who made that new rule that is in contradiction to HAL's stated policy? :confused: Was that either or policy printed in daily program, announced on the speaker system? How was it broadcast to guests to learn among all the HAL ships, Zuiderdam has a different policy? Thanks if you can clear that up for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Viesczy Posted January 23, 2013 #24 Share Posted January 23, 2013 On the Westy this fall's Hawaii/SP cruise in the MDR for formal night there were gentlemen in just a shirt and tie, no jacket. Okay, dress code cop mode ON, and the shirts typically looked as much a short sleeve pajama top as a dress shirt and typically were wearing beat athletic shoes. :eek: While I couldn't care less that they weren't wearing the "approved" clothing, it was comical to see what "passed" in their mind as formal! Some of the best time on that cruise involved keeping a straight face on formal nights. :D Derek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Holland Posted January 23, 2013 #25 Share Posted January 23, 2013 During our recent Noordam cruise I haven't seen a single man who didn't wear a jacket. Not sure if he will be asked to leave, but he might feel uncomfortable without one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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