Seems awful, but we went to the funeral of one of our neighbours today, and had a good time.
Our neighbour was a lovely chap, full of fun, enjoyed a chat, socialising, organising events etc. An all round good bloke. Sadly, he was not so well in the last few months.
So, a very nice "Humanist " service, and then to the pub for beer, sandwiches and chips, (and the odd tear).
Lots of reminiscing, lots of laughter, and lots of sadness.
God speed.