Yurita Posted July 27, 2015 #1 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Here’s my story, and what would you do? I have always wanted to book Princess’ 10 day Caribbean itinerary visiting 1. Ft. Lauderdale 2. 2. At Sea 3. At sea 4. Antigua 5. Barbados 6. St. Lucia 7. St. Kitts 8. St. Thomas 9. At sea 10. Princess cays However, due to the amount of days and work, I have never made any reservation. Looking for a cruise for the month of November, I came across HAL 8 day eastern itinerary, which is not as nice as Princess’ but it’s still extremely exciting, it’s also an 8 day and about $700 cheaper . Since the price was so good, I went ahead and booked it taking advantage of the great sale. Everything was perfectly stable. We were already making tour reservations, began doing our cruise search and getting excited about our HAL cruise when my sister just surprised us with her pregnancy, and her due-date, which coincides with our HAL sailing date. Since my mom will be taking care of the house, my dogs and also my sister’s dogs during her labor, I do not want to take a cruise and leave my mom with so many responsibilities plus my sister’s. So, I might have to cancel HAL itinerary, which is absolutely unique (because it won’t be repeated by the cruiseline). Since my Bday is the month of October, I have googled all October Caribbean cruises and came across Princess’ original itinerary. I have 2 options, cancel HAL and go with Princess or leave everything as it is (since my payment with HAL is not until Sept 15)… if any of you were in my shoes, what would you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alberta Quilter Posted July 27, 2015 #2 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Well, if I were in your shoes, I would probably cancel the HAL cruise and book with Princess in October. The preferred cruise of the two is the Princess cruise, right? Then go celebrate your birthday with the cruise that you really want. Then you ease the workload on your mother, and you're home when the baby is born. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alberta Quilter Posted July 27, 2015 #3 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Alternatively, if the 8 days is better than the 10 days away and the funds saved mean keeping the original booking with HAL, then try to find someone else to look after the house and dogs. Maybe you can find a young adult who hasn't been on their own and who is responsible to housesit for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fouremco Posted July 27, 2015 #4 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Forget the implications for a second and decide which cruise you would really prefer. Having made that choice, see if you can make it happen. If the extra cost and extra days off can be accommodated, go for Princess. If you can't squeeze out the extra couple of days, I like Alberta Quilter's suggestion of using some of the $700 saved to get a dog/house sitter. I'd go for the Princess if at all possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krazy Kruizers Posted July 27, 2015 #5 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Hard decision. I would go with Princess. Nice itinerary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquahound Posted July 27, 2015 #6 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Have you looked at the Oosterdam itineraries in October? She's doing a 10 nighter and an 11 nighter, both with excellent routes and for great prices. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sail7seas Posted July 27, 2015 #7 Share Posted July 27, 2015 (edited) Is her due date the beginning of your expected travel or the end? First babies are often late. Maybe? Is there no one else who could give your Mom at least a little help? Does your B-I-L/her partner have any family that could help? Edited July 27, 2015 by sail7seas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rguy123 Posted July 27, 2015 #8 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Make an adult decision on your own Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GradUT Posted July 27, 2015 #9 Share Posted July 27, 2015 I've been going back and forth between Princess cruises and HAL crusies and while both are nice, I've been more impressed with our recent HAL cruises than our recent Princess ones. Also, $700 is $700! If it were me, I would take the HAL cruise in November (better time to travel, weatherwise, in the Caribbean than October). You have time to work out dog/house sitters before then if you don't think your mom can handle it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yurita Posted July 27, 2015 Author #10 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Is her due date the beginning of your expected travel or the end?First babies are often late. Maybe? Is there no one else who could give your Mom at least a little help? Does your B-I-L/her partner have any family that could help? Sail7seas: Her due date is the same day we come back from our cruise. I would like to be here for her since I like to help out my mom; and the hospital is 1 hr away. My mother says to wait til payment due date, which is sept 15 and see if there are any news, or changes. Aquahond: I did see Oosterdam itineraries. Loved them both, but we've visited all ports from the 10 day and the 11 day is a possibility. Fouremco & Alberta: I think I am leaning towards what you are saying. Seems to be the right option right now. Again, payment due date for HAL is sept 15, so that will give time for 1 more ultrasound (perhaps any changes??). Thank you all !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sail7seas Posted July 27, 2015 #11 Share Posted July 27, 2015 I think your Mom gave you good advice. No rush to decide right now. If your sister delivers one day late, you'll be home. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lddam Posted July 27, 2015 #12 Share Posted July 27, 2015 If your sister delivers one day late, you'll be home. :) And if she delivers one or two days early, will you regret not being there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stokeset Posted July 27, 2015 #13 Share Posted July 27, 2015 And not to upset anyone, but I've seen way too many preemies to know that plans can change 6-8 weeks before the due date, and should that be the case, it will be imperative your mother be available. I would vote for taking the cruise you really want, when you want it, and either 1-free up your mother from all responsibility while you're gone and find some one else, or 2- have a plan for a second person that can step in should your mom have to move quickly to your sister's side. We know that ship happens.. plan for the worst case scenario and everyone will breathe easier. Good luck with whatever decision! Liz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
syesmar Posted July 27, 2015 #14 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Years ago, I had a work-related trip that I could not reschedule around the time my sister was due to give birth. My older nephews’ due dates were near our anniversary, and I was able to reschedule vacation plans to make sure we would be there for those dates. But I could not re-schedule the work trip. Many babies are late, but some are early. The timing is completely out of your control and your mom’s advice sounds wise. I agree with those who say the way to determine what to do is to ask yourself if you miss this occasion, will you regret it? Only you can answer that. My nephew arrived in this world the day before I returned. All these years later, I still wish I had been there when he was born. But I can’t change it, and I’m there for him now. I hope you find peace making the best decision for you and wish you all the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellieanne Posted July 27, 2015 #15 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Personally, I'd make arrangements to board my dogs at sleep-away camp (also known as the vet's kennel), and take the HAL cruise. As wonderful as it would be to be there at the birth of your niece/nephew those things cannot be scheduled and chances are you'd be in a waiting room anyway. I am sure your sister will understand that you have to live your life and that this opportunity meant a lot to you. And you can pick up a great welcome baby gift along the journey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sail7seas Posted July 28, 2015 #16 Share Posted July 28, 2015 And if she delivers one or two days early, will you regret not being there? The Ying and the Yang. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare chefestelle Posted July 28, 2015 #17 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Personally, I'd make arrangements to board my dogs at sleep-away camp (also known as the vet's kennel), and take the HAL cruise. As wonderful as it would be to be there at the birth of your niece/nephew those things cannot be scheduled and chances are you'd be in a waiting room anyway. I am sure your sister will understand that you have to live your life and that this opportunity meant a lot to you. And you can pick up a great welcome baby gift along the journey. I like this answer. I was in Australia when my sister had her only baby. Yes, I wish I had been there but she had many supports and it was really about me. I met my nephew the next day and it was every bit as magical as if I had been there first day! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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