Worried About the Worst

[pe4all]

If you are that nervous, I would suggest you do not go on the cruise.  Cruising isn't for everyone.  Perhaps a land vacation would suit you better.

[Joebucks]

I used to have bad anxiety, sometimes it can still peek it's head. However, I have largely overcome it, so I don't have as much sympathy unfortunately. Nor do I ever really, to be honest. We have to be the solve of our own problems most of the time. I taught myself it is no way to live your life feeling worried, scared, or isolated because of doom and gloom scenarios. Most of which is unfounded. Getting out an enjoying all that life has to offer for our short lives is what is most important. It's like those who refuse to fly because they are scared. Scared of what? Being statistically FAR less likely to get in a plane crash than a fatal car crash? Or did you psyche yourself up about the worst-case scenario? You will miss out on so much of life because of that.

 

I know everyone can't be convinced of this. If you are going to be that worried, stay home.

[Tyhunt]

Don

[Tyhunt]

I would say dont go until you work out your fear.   Same for fear of flying, dog,cats,other animals and things.  It can be overcome 🙂

[jimbo5544]

Would love to hear from the op on their current thoughts

[coevan]

6 hours ago, stinkyenglishteacher said:

as they stay relatively close to sea level.

 

 

sorry, but one of the funniest quotes on CC 🤣

[ItsADryHumor]

Yeah, I was trying to figure out a different way to word that, but it was early, so I just went with it. 🤣

[April42749]

Go to a therapist NOW....and he/she can give you some tips on how to deal with anxiety.

Ships are moving vehicles....the ship will rock; the ship may roll from side to side or rise and go down.

You may panic every time you feel motion.

 

Or....you may get on board and after an hour of "smooth sailing" have no problem.

 

I had a bad experience on NCL Dawn over 10 years ago.  I've gone on about 20 cruises since that time...I'm still alive and well... but I'd be anxious about going on the Dawn.

 

 

[evandbob]

There's a pill for that......as well as therapeutic eye motion, meditation, breathing exercises, talk therapy, even avoidance of the issue,  your choice.

[teknoge3k]

4 hours ago, April42749 said:

Go to a therapist NOW....and he/she can give you some tips on how to deal with anxiety.

 

Yup. Maybe cruising isn't for you, and staying in your city or an adjacent city to where you live and just getting a hotel for the night may be a better vacation for you.