Our first cruise was NCL, just my husband and I, we loved the MTD concept. Next cruise was DCL with our 5 kids and my parents, OMG the struggle to get 9 people to our table for early seating was real, getting back on the ship, and getting everyone showered (and of course folks were hungry getting back on the ship so snacking happened, which meant no one was really hungry for dinner). Back to NCL, we still ate as a family for dinner, but made no reservations, so much better. I can’t imagine getting 16 people to the table at a certain time every single night! Maybe a couple and switch people around (I’m assuming 2 tables). My sister and I rent a (expensive- could cruise for the cost) beach house for a week for the summer with our kids (8 in total) and SO’s are invited as well. They are free to go out to dinner if they wish, or eat what we make.