TravelinGert Posted July 2, 2015 #1 Share Posted July 2, 2015 :confused: I'll just be frank about it here. I am no longer a tiny, young thing. In fact, I'm rather plus sized now. I've kind of arrived here and don't know how to be a lady of that certain age, I guess. :rolleyes: I can't seem to find where to buy one of those lovely gowns other women my age / size wear so beautifully in so many of the cruise pictures at a reasonable price. And yes, ladies, I am terrifically jealous of you all! :o I'd like to spend about $200 and the only place I find dresses of the sort I am looking for they start around $400. That is just more than I can quite imagine spending, somehow. Any help, ladies? :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cb at sea Posted July 2, 2015 #2 Share Posted July 2, 2015 I would go online to the major dept store sites, look at some of their offerings, then GO to those stores and TRY THINGS ON!!! Texas must have some of the major retailers! And, trying things on is the best way to see what suits you! Take a friend if you are unsure..someone who will tell you the truth about how a garment looks on you! And, you don't need to have ballgowns, or bejeweled dresses...there are many price points for "formal" wear...maybe a cocktail dress would suit...they are totally fine on all cruise lines! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Floridiana Posted July 2, 2015 #3 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Most of the lovely gowns look great on the slim women of a younger generation than me. I wear nice black pants with a silk top and a silk pashmina type scarf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoyaheel Posted July 2, 2015 #4 Share Posted July 2, 2015 I find that the offerings in plus size are MUCH better online than in the brick & mortar stores in NC, so I order whatever I want to try on and then return what I don't like. Nordstrom has free shipping & returns & great sales. I'm no longer plus size but I still shop mainly the same way. Other online options that have adorable dresses are modcloth and eshakti. Modcloth skews younger but not everything is a mini - and they do offer plus. Eshakti offers customization so you can add sleeves & change lengths. Dang, I want to shop now but my next cruise is resort casual :p Maybe something for summer & work.... http://www.modcloth.com/shop/plus-sizes http://www.eshakti.com/shop/Events Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djvickers Posted July 2, 2015 #5 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Check out Amazon dot com. You will be amazed at what you can find if you type in plus size formal under 100. I started a pinterest board for this cruise and I have found quite a few lovely dresses for plus size. Just waiting to see if I can lose enough weight before the cruise to get into a smaller size or two. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slidergirl Posted July 2, 2015 #6 Share Posted July 2, 2015 The pictures of the friend makes me think she is not really "plus size" but probably around a size 14-16. They are nice dresses. I'm thinking, from the way she wrote, that the OP is in the size 22 or higher range. I would hunt the department stores around first to get an idea of what may look good on you, regardless of the price. Then, start targeting those types at lesser price points. Don't forget bridal shops - they usually have cocktail dresses/MOB dresses for all shapes/sizes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Scrapnana Posted July 2, 2015 #7 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Almost all of my formal cruise wear comes from Dillard's or fullbeauty.com (used to be onestopplus.com). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CruisingSince2012 Posted July 2, 2015 #8 Share Posted July 2, 2015 I think everyone no matter what her age and size are will be jealous of me now (and my mom too). Because the only places we can use fancy dresses are ships she got a brilliant idea: by them at a local thrift store. What happens is this: students don't need prom dresses after the prom so thrift stores get them because after being altered, gowns can't be returned to regular stores. End result: Lots of prom dresses were available for me to try on. Brides, bridesmaids, and mothers of the bride do it too. So now we each have two very pretty high-quality dresses and Mom paid less than $50 for all four. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elle64 Posted July 2, 2015 #9 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Try TRADESY.com...its a great place to find cocktail dresses and "wedding" style wear...CHEAP...some are resale some are new ....I Love it!!! Let me know if that helps.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MinnieLinda Posted July 2, 2015 #10 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Hello TravelinGert - if you message me your size. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CARNIVALCRUISE3 Posted July 2, 2015 #11 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Macy's always has great deals! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porthopper101 Posted July 2, 2015 #12 Share Posted July 2, 2015 (edited) :confused: I'll just be frank about it here. I am no longer a tiny, young thing. In fact, I'm rather plus sized now. I've kind of arrived here and don't know how to be a lady of that certain age, I guess. :rolleyes: I can't seem to find where to buy one of those lovely gowns other women my age / size wear so beautifully in so many of the cruise pictures at a reasonable price. And yes, ladies, I am terrifically jealous of you all! :o I'd like to spend about $200 and the only place I find dresses of the sort I am looking for they start around $400. That is just more than I can quite imagine spending, somehow. Any help, ladies? :) Perhaps you should post it here: http://boards.cruisecritic.com/showthread.php?t=2208337&page=5 http://boards.cruisecritic.com/showthread.php?t=989623&page=276 Someone might have something for you. Good luck Marie Edited July 2, 2015 by Porthopper101 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelinGert Posted July 3, 2015 Author #13 Share Posted July 3, 2015 (edited) I agree that you need to try on clothes! I wouldn't limit yourself to a gown. Cocktail length dresses can flatter all shapes and sizes. Here are a couple pictures of someone very dear to me. Notice how the dress flatters her figure and how she looks very elegant in the cocktail dress. I was picking out these clothes for her and she initially gave me they eye-roll and mumbled something about not thinking the dresses would look good. These dresses were under $200. She bought the print (OK, I bought it for her, but who's counting?) and a ton of other things that day. Yes, she's younger than you and I, but the point is the styling and cut of the dress for her body type. In any case, take yourself to Dillard's or Macy's or Bealls or whatever department store you have near you and start trying on all different styles of dresses, including cocktail length, until you find the shape and style that looks best on you. Don't be afraid to pick a style that you previously would NEVER consider! You'll never know what actually looks good until it's draped on your body. Then you can concentrate on price in that type of dress. Good luck! fyree39: Your friend looks spectacular. I especially love the floral on her! The colors really make her face glow. I think although your friend looks taller, she is about the same size around as me, too. Thank you for posting! I actually did take everyone's advice and go to the Macy's closest to me to try some on. Unfortunately they didn't have anything that fit me well in my budget at this moment. On the good side, I have a pretty good idea what size would best fit me. On the other side, I didn't find a dress. The Macy's nearest me is one of their smaller stores the clerks said, and I should try a larger store a little further away. They said the summer wedding season has really depleted their current stock. I ended up going home because it was late and ordering online because of their amazing sale right now, so fingers crossed. Edited July 3, 2015 by TravelinGert Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelinGert Posted July 3, 2015 Author #14 Share Posted July 3, 2015 Thank you all again! Here's what I have ordered: Just $40 on Macy's right now. Not sure I'm ready for the slit skirt, but I can always just sew it closed if I don't like it. Thanks again to everyone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoyaheel Posted July 3, 2015 #15 Share Posted July 3, 2015 That dress looks beautiful! I love plum/eggplant - works really well with my coloring too:D When I was plus size, I never had good luck at thrift stores. Stock always depends on where you shop, of course. And I've never had good luck with dresses - any kind - at thrift stores, no matter my size. One reason I love to go to thrift stores when I travel - different options! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orchestrapal Posted July 3, 2015 #16 Share Posted July 3, 2015 Thank you all again! Here's what I have ordered: Just $40 on Macy's right now. Not sure I'm ready for the slit skirt, but I can always just sew it closed if I don't like it. Thanks again to everyone! Definitely sew the slit closed...pretty dress and color. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Langley Cruisers Posted July 3, 2015 #17 Share Posted July 3, 2015 I think the slit is fine - not too high or indiscreet. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoyaheel Posted July 3, 2015 #18 Share Posted July 3, 2015 I don't find that slit inappropriate on the model at all. But how it fits & where it hits on OP could be very different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mousey Posted July 3, 2015 #19 Share Posted July 3, 2015 Good for you! What a beautiful dress. Slit or no slit...it's up to you and how you feel in it. Wear it with pride and I hope you have an awesome time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cancun01 Posted July 3, 2015 #20 Share Posted July 3, 2015 The dress is lovely but I would leave the slit as is unless it makes you feel very uncomfortable. The slit prevents the dress from looking fumpy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cancun01 Posted July 3, 2015 #21 Share Posted July 3, 2015 The dress is lovely but I would leave the slit as is unless it makes you feel very uncomfortable. The slit prevents the dress from looking fumpy/matronly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MinnieLinda Posted July 5, 2015 #22 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Beautiful dress - Although you will do what makes you most comfortable sewing the slit closed may affect the drape of the fabric. I might just tack it first and try it on. Good luck!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CateW Posted July 5, 2015 #23 Share Posted July 5, 2015 :confused: I'll just be frank about it here. I am no longer a tiny, young thing. In fact, I'm rather plus sized now. I've kind of arrived here and don't know how to be a lady of that certain age, I guess. :rolleyes: I can't seem to find where to buy one of those lovely gowns other women my age / size wear so beautifully in so many of the cruise pictures at a reasonable price. And yes, ladies, I am terrifically jealous of you all! :o I'd like to spend about $200 and the only place I find dresses of the sort I am looking for they start around $400. That is just more than I can quite imagine spending, somehow. Any help, ladies? :) I would also suggest checking Nordstroms. They are having some good sales now and the shipping on returns is free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoncom Posted July 6, 2015 #24 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Gert, Have you looked in the more upscale resale stores in Texas? Very dressy dresses get very little wear and offer great value. No prom dresses please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cocod08 Posted July 7, 2015 #25 Share Posted July 7, 2015 Being plus size myself I like Dress Barn too. You can find some great deals on-line especially if you know the size you need. I have also used Amazon in the past as well. and if you think you might be between sizes a dress can always be tailored. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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