Not to belabor the issue but sometimes teachers who are specialists do get a better response. We have a " busy"
(euphemism) grandson, who has made huge strides in listening skills..Also a little guy who loves to climb.. but we are leaving balcony decisions to the parents who know them best!
as an aside, the second grader was shown a video on wearing seat belts yesterday, and what can happen if you don't. Made a big impression. Maybe more than we realize sinks in!