Totally agree, all jokes aside, as a professional woman I have seen the dress code change. Honestly I do think being "dressed up" is still a pressure on women, but how you get there has a lot of avenues (jewelry, scarves, shoes, etc. can dress up a more casual outfit). Men are stuck more in a binary of tie/not, jacket/not, suit/not. That said, I'm about to cruise with my 2 sons in their early 20s and I've encouraged them to use this as a time to get more stylish than they usually are here on the West Coast, and I don't think there's a harm in trying for that.