I can't wear heels on formal night

[MaiTaiMary]

Leaving for my cruise in 2 weeks. I hurt my knee and I won't be able to wear heels on my cruise.

My dresses for formal night aren't "super formal", but definitely look best with a heel. I can't find anything that is flat, yet still looks nice! Any suggestions?? I just got back from shopping and I think I didn't have any luck because I don't have a clue what I'm looking for.

 

I don't want a "flat, office-looking shoe". Yet, I don't think a dressier "flip flop" would work in the MDR on formal night. Ack! Help!

[tiggeril]

I don't know what your budget is like, but this is similar to a pair of flats I'm taking along for formal night.

 

http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/jessica-simpson-labelle-studded-pointy-toe-flat-women/4024267?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&contextualcategoryid=2375500&fashionColor=FOGGY+MORNING&resultback=268

 

EDIT: Found some more

http://www.zappos.com/touch-ups-jazz-pewter if you can do a teeny wedge

 

http://www.zappos.com/steve-madden-elsa-bright-multi these would be cute with a solid color dress

http://www.zappos.com/blue-by-betsey-johnson-ever-ivory-satin

http://www.zappos.com/cole-haan-tartine-skimmer-gold-silver-glitter these would be comfy

Edited August 7, 2015 by tiggeril
more shoes!

[OCruisers]

I just wear the flip flop style and don't worry about it. At least I can wear them comfortably. :)

 

LuLu

[CowPrincess]

Any suggestions?? I just got back from shopping and I think I didn't have any luck because I don't have a clue what I'm looking for.

 

I don't want a "flat, office-looking shoe". Yet, I don't think a dressier "flip flop" would work in the MDR on formal night. Ack! Help!

 

Would something with a low wedge heel work for you? This sort of height?

 

http://www.ebay.com/itm/Bella-Vita-Grazie-Womens-Size-8-Silver-Leather-Wedge-Sandals-Shoes-/131552816560?hash=item1ea128adb0

[SadieN]

Mon wears a Merrell black slide sport sandal with black socks. At quick glance no one can notice.

Mom wears an older version of these that are all blackhttp://www.merrell.com/US/en/terran-slide/17534W.html?dwvar_17534W_color=J21762#cgid=women-footwear-sandals&start=1

ETA--Mom wears black slacks and a top.

 

 

These could work

http://m.dsw.com/shop/product/313012

Edited August 7, 2015 by SadieN

[zoncom]

Kitten heels.Dressy 1-2 inch heels. Lots of brands make them.

[awhfy]

I wear flats too (13 foot surgeries). I find either blingy strap sandals or ballet flats work quite well. Good luck, hope the knee is ok

[BND]

I can wear heels, but I choose not to on a cruise. I bring wedges and flat sandals for casual night. For formal night I've found a pair of almost flat bejeweled sandals. I've watched too many women teeter on heels on a moving ship. Not to mention the marble floors and stairs that are not easy to navigate in heels. I also prefer to not be in pain lol. Point is, there are a lot of options that don't involve heels. And, right now, there's lots of clearances.

[cb at sea]

There are some fancy flats...something with about a 1/2 inch heel would be just fine. And, so you know....no one will be looking at your shoes! No worries!

[auntjoy036]

MaiTaiMary, Best wishes for a speedy recovery. I found a pair of low heel elastic strappy sandals from Easy Street.

 

Tiggeril, The next time I need help shoe shopping , I'm calling you. Fair warning, post surgery I'm a 7.5ww with a high instep and very tender toes. Having seen the beautiful collection you curated for MTM, I can't help but wish you were my personal shopper.

 

Best wishes to you both.

 

Vicki

[Anita Latte]

Aw...

 

When something happens beyond your control...and makes you have to do a change that you may not really want to do...

 

I ruptured my ACL in February so have pretty much lived in flats since then.

 

For the formal nights that were closer to injury...I really wanted a more stable shoe. I went in a completely different direction and bought metallic oxfords. If I couldn't wear a heeled shoe...then I was just going to embrace the difference.

 

I went looking for a look and had found this idea:

 

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_jy8TxSEIVA...mayflowers.jpg

 

Here's metallic oxfords with a nicer dress:

 

http://media9.onsugar.com/files/2011...43f_olivia.jpg

 

A bronze metallic functions like a nude on me so that's what I got. I wear them with no show socks.

 

You may not be up for that look...

 

I have a wide-ish foot that tends to swell when I travel so I felt more limited in my choices.

 

I must advise that you wear a true flat. If you have an issue with your knee...any tweak could be much more upsetting for you than for others...catching a heel on anything (especially a little kitten heel) could be just enough to really throw off your balance and cause a compensation that would have a negative result.

 

And any sort of wedge heel...the height of it may throw off your alignment just enough to cause issues...I just don't think it's worth it.

 

Some great suggestions earlier...to add to them:

 

http://www.zappos.com/seychelles-haunt-silver-metallic-suede

 

http://www.dillards.com/product/Gianni-Bini-Kirrah-AnkleStrap-Flats_301_-1_301_505168992?categoryId=590169&di=04456498_zi_pink_marble&facetCache=pageSize%3D100%26beginIndex%3D0%26orderBy%3D1

 

http://www.dillards.com/product/Blue-by-Betsey-Johnson-Joy-Beaded-AnkleStrap-Ballet-Flats_301_-1_301_504110913?categoryId=590169&di=04120339_zi_champagne&facetCache=pageSize%3D100%26beginIndex%3D0%26orderBy%3D1

 

http://www.dillards.com/product/Vince-Camuto-Felise-PointedToe-d%C2%B4Orsay-Flats_301_-1_301_505174550?categoryId=590169&di=04458063_zi_black&facetCache=pageSize%3D100%26beginIndex%3D0%26orderBy%3D1

 

These are a bit pricy...but if the tan were nude-like on you or if the black worked with your dresses...could be very lovely on:

 

http://www.dillards.com/product/MICHAEL-Michael-Kors-Hamilton-Cutout-PointedToe-Flats_301_-1_301_505485637?categoryId=590169&di=04553681_zi_dark_khaki&facetCache=pageSize%3D100%26beginIndex%3D100%26orderBy%3D1

 

Regardless of what you do...I hope that you can enjoy your cruise!

[Scrapnana]

I have had good luck at some of the discount chains finding reasonably priced flats. SteinMart is my first choice, but if you don't have one in your area try Marshalls, TJMaxx, and Burlington Coat Factory.

[dazey]

While I love the dressy heeled shoes and dream I could wear them again, I have settled on dressy flats(jeweled). I tried a safe pair of somewhat high heeled shoes last cruise but ended up taking them off every time I could and then just went to the cabin. DSW has a great variety and many on sale. I am sure you will look wonderful and feel great too wearing your outfit with comfortable and safe shoes.

[conwakr]

I don't bring heels on cruises. There are so many cute flats and sandals that are blingy. I guess I've never associated boats and ships with heels.

[simplelife]

With my foot and knee problems, I have not worn heels for years. I find that for me a very understated shoe is the way to go, focusing on yoru dress or other accessories. I have a pair of black patent, closed toe slingback pumps with a kitten heel (to me patent looks dressier than smooth leather or fabric.) When I found this comfortable pair, I also got I also got similar pairs in silver and in red. I'm glad I did because this year it seems there's not much out there in this style that is not either very flat or stiletto. I also have a pair of black patent flats. These 4 pairs have served me for years in various elegant, semi-formal, and formal occasions.

 

Another route to go is a blingy/strappy sandal (flat or kitten heel) in metallic or a shiny patent matching your dress. There are a lot more heel heights available in sandals, it seems.

 

I usually shop at DSW, Off-Broadway, or Steinmart, as well as my regional department store, Belk.

[slidergirl]

Just my opinion:

Wear what you need to wear for your comfort with your injury. If anyone would turn up their nose and "tsk tsk" about your choice of footwear on formal night, it is their problem and you wouldn't want to associate with those folks any way.

As someone who has the inability to wear heels due to permanent damage from a shattered leg injury, I never buy a pair of shoes based on it's looks. I can't afford to do that. Even now - there is a pair of shoes that I would LOVE to have to wear with my suits for work, but there is too much of a heel for my one ankle to handle. I'm having a "left brain/right brain" discussion on them -buy them and take them off when I'm not standing/walking at work or save th money and get something I can wear all the time…

 

Ignore those who say "try the kitten heel" or "try a 1" heel"; they are not "walking a mile in your shoes" ;)

[Lois R]

I have started to wear ballet flats with my evening wear...formal included.

I don't have knee issues but it is just easier for me, they feel good and

they go with my dressier outfits too. When you say you can't find any

flats that look nice...not sure what you are looking for.

 

I have a pair of Clark's that have about a 1/4 inch heel, they are black

leather and I find them terrific:)

 

Sorry about your knees and hope you find what you are looking for:)

 

I am trying to find a photo to post.....

[simplelife]

Here is the link to a similar style to the slingbacks I was referring to.

http://www.easyspirit.com/Liselle-Pointy-Toe-Slingback-Dress-Shoes/56373984,default,pd.html?variantColor=JJ0XVA6&variantSize=070&variantWidth=M&ep_tag=rkgBPLA

 

Here is a pair of flats similar to mine.

http://www.bing.com/images/search?q=dressy+flats&view=detailv2&&id=2805C654879DBA6AEDB65123A11DFF630096E875&selectedIndex=26&ccid=MTqJbBQH&simid=608024338774427650&thid=JN.qi4i8SXFVfxk7lZtdIclwA&ajaxhist=0

Edited August 8, 2015 by simplelife

[Lois R]

These are the ones I have............

http://www.shoppingblitz.com/1049737-Womens-Clarks-Carousel-Ride-Flats-Black-5-5-M-Regular?gclid=CLifuc6KmscCFYY9gQodnuAJAQ

[workingtocruise-59]

I have tried, unsuccessfully, to copy and paste links but http://www.yoox.com has a good range of Lola Cruz shoes and sandals ( and on the US site they're less than half the UK price!!) and there's a 15% discount until August 9. I have a few pairs of the embellished flats and they're lovely for evenings.

Edited August 9, 2015 by workingtocruise-59

[luvscruising2007]

I buy my shoes from ShoeBuy. Free shipping, Free returns and many sizes and brands to choose from.

 

Good luck with your search. There is nothing better than finding the perfect shoe, comfy and cute.

[t60]

O'vee got a pair of flat black strappy sandals with some diamante bling on themwhich makes them quite dressy ( they're everywhere in Spain at the moment) or what about a pair of flats dressed up with some stick on jewels or fancy clip ear rings to decorate (i've done this on sandals before). Google shoe clips then check the image tab

 

Sandy in Spain

[Misskitty72]

my friend is in to ballroom dancing and suggested I try a pair of dance shoes since I can't walk in heels to save my life. :p

 

These aren't the sexiest shoes you'll ever own, but they might do the trick for formal night. (They look much better on than in the picture)

 

http://www.amazon.com/EKF108-Very-Fine-Ladies-Ballroom/dp/B010UO3XO0/ref=pd_rhf_gw_p_img_3?ie=UTF8&refRID=05CPW6CPZW5TX4R44HMJ

 

There are also some styles that look more like kitten heels and are pretty comfortable.

 

http://www.amazon.com/Bloch-Womens-Yvette-Ballroom-Shoe/dp/B0041IXPPE/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1439110143&sr=1-1&keywords=ballroom+dance+shoes

[t60]

Dance shoes are a good suggestion as most of them have suede soles which stop you slipping, but they won't be any good to wear out on pavements. If you use ebay and search under latin and ballroom dance shoes you'll have a huge selection. You need to watch the sizing if they are made in China tho and probably go up a size, but a lot of the sellers show you how to measure your feet. The prices are very reasonable I bought a new pair for my dance class last week for £9 including postage ie about 14$ and they ship all over the world. Dance shoes are very lightweight and flexible

 

Sandy in Spain

[kdeans1010]

My sister busted her foot in a dozen plus places (12+ bones, 12+ places, 7 screws), before she was addicted to heels (higher the heel closer to God.). Since then we have (as a family) been on the hunt for cute flats. Toms has cute lacy flats (super comfy) or glitter flats. Clarks always has great shoes (I found a great pair of 1 inch all over platforms that ferl like a flat. Wore them all day for my sister's wedding. Literally from 0700 until after midnight ). Birkenstocks have super cute metallic cute out sandals I wear to dressy occasions.

 

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