iancal Posted May 20, 2019 #176 Share Posted May 20, 2019 (edited) I do not wear hats...inside or outside. But really, I am not impacted in any way whatsoever if I see someone wearing one in the MDR or in any other restaurant for that matter. I would have to be more than a little bit anal to let something like that interfere with my dining pleasure. It happens, I have no control over it, so I just accept it and get on with enjoying what I am doing. No point in sweating the small stuff is there??? Now...if they are wearing it backwards....well that is an entirely different issue. Mind you, a Habs hat will bring a smile to my old wrinkled face. Even in the MDR on Gala evenings. Bottom line is that I believe that some people need to get over themselves and accept that fact that not everyone feels the same or acts the same as they do. Edited May 20, 2019 by iancal 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare terrydtx Posted May 20, 2019 #177 Share Posted May 20, 2019 Last night my wife and I had dinner at Perry's Steak House a very upscale and expensive restaurant in Dallas, TX. With this very long thread in mind I took a look around to see what most men were wearing and it looked like Gala night on HAL. A few older men in sport coats with non ties, A couple of suits but majority in slacks, jeans khakis with golf shirts and button up shirts all with collars. I saw even some shorts and non collar shirts. 20 to 30 years ago you would have seen the majority of the men in coats and ties much like cruises that long ago, but society has changed and evolved as has the cruising world. I am sure there were some customers in the restaurant last night who were not happy about the attire of others, but in reality it is what it is, and there is no going back. BTW the steaks and seafood at Perry's were so much better than any meal I have ever had at the PG, but i don't want to get off topic. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancal Posted May 20, 2019 #178 Share Posted May 20, 2019 (edited) +1. As above is exactly how it is where we live. And it has been that way for many years. Same as it is on Sundays at the church DW attends. Edited May 20, 2019 by iancal 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taxmantoo Posted May 20, 2019 #179 Share Posted May 20, 2019 Baseball hats in the MDR??? I think we need more Tonys on HAL 😄 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hqp1bGuiHHs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawnino Posted May 20, 2019 #180 Share Posted May 20, 2019 TIL... people dress up to go on airplanes ?!?! And here I am purposely dressing DOWN in layers because I have no idea how warm/cool it'll be in the cabin and I don't want to moan about it if I guess wrong. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slidergirl Posted May 20, 2019 #181 Share Posted May 20, 2019 Our former Mayor did a series of commercials about our town to try to get others in the state to visit. One commercial did from one of our three Forbes 4-star-rated restaurants. He talked about dress code for high-end restaurants in town. His reply (paraphrased): We have what we call Park City semi-formal: clean jeans, cowboy boots and a hideous Hawaiian shirt." You will never see a jacket on a man at our high-end restaurants unless he is over 60 or coming from a wedding or a funeral. Usually, it's country-club casual - khakis and polo or Tommy Bahama shirts (or a sweater in the winter). Women are usually in jeans of various fit, boots or flats, and a variety of shirts, from T-shirts to tunics to button-downs. Maybe a few in skirt or a dress, but definitely a single-digit percentage. So, how one dresses for a nice restaurant is actually geographically diverse and I would expect the same for those who take a cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedneckBob Posted May 20, 2019 #182 Share Posted May 20, 2019 On May 19, 2019 at 1:48 PM, Roz said: Close to it. 😄 We had a very large Australian contingent onboard. 3 tour groups that I was aware of. There may have been more. US passengers definitely in the minority. Roz Did you see my Bass Pro Shop cap. Just call me Gator Bob, short for RNB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Roz Posted May 20, 2019 #183 Share Posted May 20, 2019 16 minutes ago, RedneckBob said: Did you see my Bass Pro Shop cap. Just call me Gator Bob, short for RNB Were you on my cruise??? Roz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wehwalt Posted May 20, 2019 #184 Share Posted May 20, 2019 (edited) I imagine the hat stated what type of fish the wearer urged the viewer to kiss? One that rhymes with grass? Edited May 20, 2019 by Wehwalt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SetAnOpenCourse Posted May 21, 2019 #185 Share Posted May 21, 2019 In at least several viewpoints here, the presupposition is that expensive restaurants set the standard. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that, but neither do I think that HAL must follow suit. HAL can do it’s own thing. Many people might find it refreshing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancal Posted May 21, 2019 #186 Share Posted May 21, 2019 (edited) I believe that it may also be a reflection in the differences among various regions in the country. I certainly saw a difference in how people dressed as I traveled on business or as we lived in various areas of the county. Not everyone dresses in Boston or Toronto as they do in Colorado Springs, Calgary, Vancouver or San Francisco and vice versa. Edited May 21, 2019 by iancal 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Mary229 Posted May 21, 2019 #187 Share Posted May 21, 2019 1 hour ago, iancal said: I believe that it may also be a reflection in the differences among various regions in the country. I certainly saw a difference in how people dressed as I traveled on business or as we lived in various areas of the county. Not everyone dresses in Boston or Toronto as they do in Colorado Springs, Calgary, Vancouver or San Francisco and vice versa. That and to where you are traveling. Caribbean cruises are very casual, Europe and the Middle East far less. I rarely wear shorts or jeans even off ship in those locations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zelker Posted May 21, 2019 #188 Share Posted May 21, 2019 22 hours ago, slidergirl said: Our former Mayor did a series of commercials about our town to try to get others in the state to visit. One commercial did from one of our three Forbes 4-star-rated restaurants. He talked about dress code for high-end restaurants in town. His reply (paraphrased): We have what we call Park City semi-formal: clean jeans, cowboy boots and a hideous Hawaiian shirt." You will never see a jacket on a man at our high-end restaurants unless he is over 60 or coming from a wedding or a funeral. Usually, it's country-club casual - khakis and polo or Tommy Bahama shirts (or a sweater in the winter). Women are usually in jeans of various fit, boots or flats, and a variety of shirts, from T-shirts to tunics to button-downs. Maybe a few in skirt or a dress, but definitely a single-digit percentage. So, how one dresses for a nice restaurant is actually geographically diverse and I would expect the same for those who take a cruise. Same here in Colorado but sorry, those of us "over 60" STARTED that dress code 50+ years ago and it's still in vogue today!! 😉 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slidergirl Posted May 21, 2019 #189 Share Posted May 21, 2019 1 hour ago, zelker said: Same here in Colorado but sorry, those of us "over 60" STARTED that dress code 50+ years ago and it's still in vogue today!! 😉 Same here. Usually those "over 60" with the jackets are tourists... Us locals, from birth to death, are in the Mayor's designated dress code!! And, the usual choice of jacket is a Patagonia or Mountain Hardware, not Brooks Brothers 😉 The only time my LBD comes out of the closet is if I am going on a cruise or if I am going to Europe. It's jeans, jeans, jeans, with the occasional leggings tossed in. Boots or trail runners or my Jambu flats are the preferred footwear, with the trail runners on my feet 80% of the time, No strappy sandals, blinged out sandals, no stilettos... That's just me and my "peeps" here in town. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancal Posted May 21, 2019 #190 Share Posted May 21, 2019 (edited) Same here. We have a well know Stampede and Rodeo where we live. We can tell the 'easterners' IF they are wearing jeans they are quite often pressed. And more often than not designer brands. Imagine! Shirts the same, all from the high end stores. Footwear...you nailed it. If they had cowboy boots they tended to be brand new and polished to a high sheen. When I was in business, anyone who showed up wearing a tie had it cut off! Lots of fun. Just goes to show the differences. Those differences are what make our respective countries so interesting! Easy for me to say because I grew up and lived in a much more formal eastern environment for many years. Edited May 21, 2019 by iancal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slidergirl Posted May 21, 2019 #191 Share Posted May 21, 2019 16 minutes ago, iancal said: Same here. We have a well know Stampede and Rodeo where we live. We can tell the 'easterners' IF they are wearing jeans they are quite often pressed. And more often than not designer brands. Imagine! Shirts the same, all from the high end stores. Footwear...you nailed it. If they had cowboy boots they tended to be brand new and polished to a high sheen. When I was in business, anyone who showed up wearing a tie had it cut off! Lots of fun. Just goes to show the differences. Those differences are what make our respective countries so interesting! Easy for me to say because I grew up and lived in a much more formal eastern environment for many years. A friend of mine is one of the commentators for the Chuckwagon races and does on-camera interviews at "the Stampede." And, she barrel races... I love that part of Canada - spent a couple of weeks each year up there at the COP in all kinds of weather. I think we are all less stuffy in our dress on both sides of the Western part of the Northern Border 🙂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRG Posted May 21, 2019 #192 Share Posted May 21, 2019 (edited) On 4/13/2019 at 8:16 PM, ScottC4746 said: That used to be me. Both my DH and I wore suits to the Gala Night and I dare say we stuck out. This isn't the Titanic for dinner anymore. for those of you who like to read the threads backwards (newest first), I thought I would quote the OP's early assessment. The quote really sums it up. We were in the MDR 11 days ago, albeit another line and did not see a Tuxedo. Wearing a Tuxedo on a HAL ship is out-dressing the food, most of the time. It's a fading fashion even in the award ceremonies and red carpets. Kilts might be making a comeback though. Edited May 21, 2019 by JRG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScottC4746 Posted May 21, 2019 Author #193 Share Posted May 21, 2019 29 minutes ago, JRG said: for those of you who like to read the threads backwards (newest first), I thought I would quote the OP's early assessment. The quote really sums it up. We were in the MDR 11 days ago, albeit another line and did not see a Tuxedo. Wearing a Tuxedo on a HAL ship is out-dressing the food, most of the time. It's a fading fashion even in the award ceremonies and red carpets. Kilts might be making a comeback though. Thank you for twisting my words around. Not at all what I was saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fouremco Posted May 21, 2019 #194 Share Posted May 21, 2019 (edited) 2 hours ago, slidergirl said: I think we are all less stuffy in our dress on both sides of the Western part of the Northern Border 🙂 That would be "Southern Border" please. 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦 Edited May 21, 2019 by Fouremco Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRG Posted May 21, 2019 #195 Share Posted May 21, 2019 (edited) I see what you're saying. I mistook your suits for Tuxedos. My bad. My point is about not seeing a Tuxedo in the MDR is my compelling argument about its dwindiling popularity on cruiseships. Edited May 21, 2019 by JRG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SetAnOpenCourse Posted May 21, 2019 #196 Share Posted May 21, 2019 There will always be people looking for a night or two where you turn it up a notch with attire, and the more festive atmosphere it creates, especially on a cruise. It might not be to a level of super-dressiness for me, but it’s the variation from routine that makes it fun. There’s also something fun about a bunch of people making the effort. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slidergirl Posted May 22, 2019 #197 Share Posted May 22, 2019 2 hours ago, Fouremco said: That would be "Southern Border" please. 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦 Hey Hoser... I'm still waiting for that wall... Gotta keep out those people from the South who sound similar but want Bud intead of Molsons... 😉 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AncientWanderer Posted May 22, 2019 #198 Share Posted May 22, 2019 1 hour ago, SetAnOpenCourse said: There will always be people looking for a night or two where you turn it up a notch with attire, and the more festive atmosphere it creates, especially on a cruise. It might not be to a level of super-dressiness for me, but it’s the variation from routine that makes it fun. There’s also something fun about a bunch of people making the effort. Great post! All it is to me is a shipboard activity -- right there with trivia. There just aren't that many things to do while at sea. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slidergirl Posted May 22, 2019 #199 Share Posted May 22, 2019 1 hour ago, SetAnOpenCourse said: There will always be people looking for a night or two where you turn it up a notch with attire, and the more festive atmosphere it creates, especially on a cruise. It might not be to a level of super-dressiness for me, but it’s the variation from routine that makes it fun. There’s also something fun about a bunch of people making the effort. There will always be people who "make an effort" (get out of sandy beach clothes, shower, shave, put on clean khakis & collared shirt) but will be not enough "effort" for some. 😉 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SetAnOpenCourse Posted May 22, 2019 #200 Share Posted May 22, 2019 46 minutes ago, slidergirl said: There will always be people who "make an effort" (get out of sandy beach clothes, shower, shave, put on clean khakis & collared shirt) but will be not enough "effort" for some. 😉 I for one will appreciate their effort. It’s good to realize that any given activity requires different amounts of effort depending on the individual. And hey, it’s vacation! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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