DimSum Posted November 8, 2018 #1 Share Posted November 8, 2018 I will be sailing to the Eastern Caribbean on the Royal 11/17 and travelling with 10yo daughter and 12yo son. Dressing my daughter is not a problem for formal nights. But does my 12 year old need to wear a suit jacket and tie for the formal in the MDR? Has anyone seen pre-teen boys dressed in a suit? I'm hoping he can get away with a shirt and tie and skip the jacket. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thrak Posted November 8, 2018 #2 Share Posted November 8, 2018 You will be fine. That is the norm for young men. 🙂 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Itchy&Scratchy Posted November 8, 2018 #3 Share Posted November 8, 2018 even adults don't bother with the dinner jackets and ties. My DS wears polo shirts and khaki pants. My DH wears buttoned shirts and nice dress pants. I haven't see any really dressed up boys. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BDRebel Posted November 8, 2018 #4 Share Posted November 8, 2018 On the other hand, yes, I have seen youngsters dressed not only in coat and tie, but in tuxes as well. The question is not how does your child wish to dress, but how do you want them to dress. At 12 years old, he cannot be expected to fully understand the dress code. As an adult, you do should have that knowledge. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thrak Posted November 8, 2018 #5 Share Posted November 8, 2018 14 minutes ago, Itchy&Scratchy said: even adults don't bother with the dinner jackets and ties. My DS wears polo shirts and khaki pants. My DH wears buttoned shirts and nice dress pants. I haven't see any really dressed up boys. That seems a bit disingenuous. We tend to see a large percentage (actually the majority) of men in suits on formal night. Very few these days wear a tux but we do see those as well. Some men don't wear suits. I'm not here to discuss that. I'm just pointing out that your statement was extremely general and can give an incorrect impression. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Potstech Posted November 8, 2018 #6 Share Posted November 8, 2018 I would have him wear what he would to a church service or a nice restaurant. No need to go out and spend a lot of money on something he might wear only on the cruise . At 12 he is most likely to go through agrowth spurt very soon. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skynight Posted November 8, 2018 #7 Share Posted November 8, 2018 38 minutes ago, DimSum said: I will be sailing to the Eastern Caribbean on the Royal 11/17 and travelling with 10yo daughter and 12yo son. Dressing my daughter is not a problem for formal nights. But does my 12 year old need to wear a suit jacket and tie for the formal in the MDR? Has anyone seen pre-teen boys dressed in a suit? I'm hoping he can get away with a shirt and tie and skip the jacket. Nice clothing will do. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissP22 Posted November 8, 2018 #8 Share Posted November 8, 2018 On 11/8/2018 at 1:15 PM, DimSum said: I will be sailing to the Eastern Caribbean on the Royal 11/17 and travelling with 10yo daughter and 12yo son. Dressing my daughter is not a problem for formal nights. But does my 12 year old need to wear a suit jacket and tie for the formal in the MDR? Has anyone seen pre-teen boys dressed in a suit? I'm hoping he can get away with a shirt and tie and skip the jacket. He sure can skip the jacket. My DH hasn't worn one in years and has been perfectly happy about it and he's no kid. Just a nice dress shirt & pants will suffice. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john watson Posted November 8, 2018 #9 Share Posted November 8, 2018 The formal dress requirement suggested on the Princess website outlines what men and women wear. Children presumably would wear smart casual type clothing or if the parents wanted boys to wear a tuxedo etc. or girls special dresses this is perfectly acceptable also. No requirement to go out and buy special expensive clothing which will soon be grown out of if you do not want to. Regards John 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atobols Posted November 9, 2018 #10 Share Posted November 9, 2018 On our cruise last year, my boys wore dress pants, dress shirt, and a tie. Most other boys on the cruise skipped the tie. We have three formal nights on our upcoming cruise. Both of my boys decided they wanted to wear jackets and ties this time. They're 10 and 12 years old. I took them to a local thrift store and they picked out jackets for less than $10. I didn't want to spend a lot because they may change their minds at the last minute. As long as it's within reason, I let the boys wear whatever they want. I want them to feel good about the way they look and enjoy themselves. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jennybenny Posted November 9, 2018 #11 Share Posted November 9, 2018 My boys enjoy dressing up. The 15 yo has enjoyed wearing a tux growing up, and the hand me downs have been nice for the 10 year old. Now that the 10 yo is getting older his tastes are a bit different than his brother's. So, he tends to wear more vests with his pants, and doesn't often wear the jacket. As long as kids dress nicely they are fine in the MDR. Princess does not expect children to dress to the nines, and if your son is comfortable in a shirt and tie, he will fit in just fine. 🙂 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastBay Cruisers Posted November 9, 2018 #12 Share Posted November 9, 2018 15 hours ago, DimSum said: I will be sailing to the Eastern Caribbean on the Royal 11/17 and travelling with 10yo daughter and 12yo son. Dressing my daughter is not a problem for formal nights. But does my 12 year old need to wear a suit jacket and tie for the formal in the MDR? Has anyone seen pre-teen boys dressed in a suit? I'm hoping he can get away with a shirt and tie and skip the jacket. That will be fine. I'm sure that both your children will look very nice. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roatanfans Posted November 9, 2018 #13 Share Posted November 9, 2018 Smart casual should be just fine- a vest can be a nice compromise. I make my son dress in a suit and tie- first of all I love the pictures of my kids dressed up, and secondly we go on more 15 day cruises where there aren't as many kids on board. I know there are a lot of people who don't really love seeing kids on the ship so I expect my children to act as ambassadors for kids on board- that means dressing up, behaving and using their best manners. They have been taught that if they want to go on the cruise they must act appropriately at all times- that is their "cost" to go on a cruise (well that and being subject to lots of pictures!) 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
satxdiver Posted November 10, 2018 #14 Share Posted November 10, 2018 For the OP's 12 y/o DS a shirt with collar and dockers will suffice. The shirt can be long or short sleeved and even a polo shirt will work. No expects a 12 y/o to look like a 30ish professional. I have seen youngsters dressed like adults but think it looks very silly and is a waste of money. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucky TGO Posted November 10, 2018 #15 Share Posted November 10, 2018 (edited) He will look fine with just a Shirt & Tie don’t forget his Pants...😁😁😁 Tony Edited November 10, 2018 by Lucky TGO 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john watson Posted November 13, 2018 #16 Share Posted November 13, 2018 On 11/10/2018 at 6:55 AM, Lucky TGO said: He will look fine with just a Shirt & Tie don’t forget his Pants...😁😁😁 Tony Liza Minnelli had a formal Tailcoat style of dress which you have just reminded me about. Regards John Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theduffys Posted November 13, 2018 #17 Share Posted November 13, 2018 last year our twin 12yo grandsons wore kakie (sp) pants, dressshirt, tie (one wore a bowtie) and blue blazer. so many passengers and dining room staff came to compliment them. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tutuwahineLV Posted November 13, 2018 #18 Share Posted November 13, 2018 On 11/8/2018 at 10:53 AM, Potstech said: I would have him wear what he would to a church service or a nice restaurant. No need to go out and spend a lot of money on something he might wear only on the cruise . At 12 he is most likely to go through agrowth spurt very soon. This. It's a wonderful chance to step out of the everyday and get dressed up. Whatever you would have them wear to church or a wedding. and don't pass up the opportunity to have the photo of the family 'all gussied up and purdy' It doesn't happen that often, right? lol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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