Sancho_proudfoot Posted June 17, 2019 #1 Share Posted June 17, 2019 What's the view on passengers wearing their medals and/or other awards and decorations on formal nights? DW has recently been awarded another (military) award, and is (rightly) proud of it. She is considering wearing her miniature medals on formal nights, but is worried about the reaction this may get from other passengers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare mom says Posted June 17, 2019 #2 Share Posted June 17, 2019 Is she also wearing her mess kit? In that case wearing her medals would be appropriate. We've seen both men and women wearing their mess kits on formal nights (DH was one of many to do so on our QM2 cruise). Wearing them with civvies? Not so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cruiser_1977 Posted June 17, 2019 #3 Share Posted June 17, 2019 (edited) Oops...just noticed you are from the UK....not sure what the rules are there.... However, in my opinion, wear them proudly. As long as it's allowed by her branch of service. Edited June 17, 2019 by JennyB1977 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted June 17, 2019 #4 Share Posted June 17, 2019 (edited) 56 minutes ago, mom says said: Is she also wearing her mess kit? In that case wearing her medals would be appropriate. We've seen both men and women wearing their mess kits on formal nights (DH was one of many to do so on our QM2 cruise). Wearing them with civvies? Not so much. Full size medals go with mess uniform. The whole point in miniature medals (which is what OP mentioned) is that they exist to be worn with civilian formal wear - never with uniforms. Any “reaction” from fellow passengers would be simply their exhibition of ignorance - and is best ignored. Edited June 17, 2019 by navybankerteacher 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rkacruiser Posted June 17, 2019 #5 Share Posted June 17, 2019 1 hour ago, navybankerteacher said: Any “reaction” from fellow passengers would be simply their exhibition of ignorance - and is best ignored. I agree wholeheartedly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare mom says Posted June 17, 2019 #6 Share Posted June 17, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, navybankerteacher said: Full size medals go with mess uniform. The whole point in miniature medals (which is what OP mentioned) is that they exist to be worn with civilian formal wear - never with uniforms. Any “reaction” from fellow passengers would be simply their exhibition of ignorance - and is best ignored. Perhaps in the US. Not everywhere. In some countries only miniatures are worn with mess kit. Full size medals are only worn by serving members with what, in Canada, is called Parade Dress or S1 uniform. ( what i believe is the Class A Dress in the US). Medals are only worn with civilian dress for approved functions, such as those associated with a military function or a memorial ceremony such as Remembrance Day. The question asked by the OP (from the UK) was whether or not it was appropriate to wear the miniatures with civilian attire for a formal night on a cruise. Depending on the dress regulations of the country of issue, this may not be considered an appropriate occasion. However I'm aware that in the US, a more laissez faire attitude is common. The OPs wife should probably ask her unit WO or Sergeant Major about this. They are usually the experts on dress regs. Edited June 17, 2019 by mom says Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doug R. Posted June 17, 2019 #7 Share Posted June 17, 2019 2 hours ago, navybankerteacher said: Full size medals go with mess uniform. The whole point in miniature medals (which is what OP mentioned) is that they exist to be worn with civilian formal wear - never with uniforms.. This is absolutely untrue. Miniature medals are prescribed with the Air Force (and I believe Army) mess dress, which is the equivalent of the civilian tux. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Hlitner Posted June 17, 2019 #8 Share Posted June 17, 2019 Since she earned those medals with an allied military force, I would be among the first to thank her for her service :). Hank 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallux Posted June 17, 2019 #9 Share Posted June 17, 2019 I agree with the others. If allowed by the service unit for that function, wear them proudly. Anyone who speaks out negatively about it is just ungrateful. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K32682 Posted June 18, 2019 #10 Share Posted June 18, 2019 The passenger reaction might depend on the line and passenger composition. Wearing military miniatures with formal civilian attire is not unusual in the UK and Europe but not as common in North America. It wouldn't draw a second glance from me, might be a conversation starter for others who are curious and there is a very outside chance someone might object. She earned the awards and should wear them with pride. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheOldBear Posted June 18, 2019 #11 Share Posted June 18, 2019 2 hours ago, Doug R. said: This is absolutely untrue. Miniature medals are prescribed with the Air Force (and I believe Army) mess dress, which is the equivalent of the civilian tux. The US Navy version was called 'Dinner Dress Blues' - only full Commanders and above were expected to own a set [from 'Max Overcharge' in Newport RI 😉 ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davekathy Posted June 18, 2019 #12 Share Posted June 18, 2019 6 hours ago, Sancho_proudfoot said: What's the view on passengers wearing their medals and/or other awards and decorations on formal nights? DW has recently been awarded another (military) award, and is (rightly) proud of it. She is considering wearing her miniature medals on formal nights, but is worried about the reaction this may get from other passengers. Tell them, "you're welcome". 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tonopah Posted June 18, 2019 #13 Share Posted June 18, 2019 If it is her desire to wear her medals, wear them with pride. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare sparks1093 Posted June 18, 2019 #14 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Another vote to wear them if it falls within regulations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leaveitallbehind Posted June 18, 2019 #15 Share Posted June 18, 2019 I see no issue with this whatsoever and my reaction as a passenger when we see this (which we have a number of times) is to thank the individual for their service, which we do anytime we encounter a member of the military. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare VMax1700 Posted June 18, 2019 #16 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Personal view - if you are in a military situation ok, but on a civilian ship in a civilian situation they have no relevance, whether formal night or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chengkp75 Posted June 18, 2019 #17 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Again, UK uniform regulations are different, and I'm assuming the DW is still serving (hence the recent award). Just wanted to say that in the US, contrary to a lot of practice I see on cruise ships, that wearing uniforms by retired personnel is prohibited unless the occasion is related to the person's service. So, this is why miniature medals are allowed on civilian attire in the US. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CPT Trips Posted June 18, 2019 #18 Share Posted June 18, 2019 (edited) Here's what the US Army says (not that this applies to OP). Seems that it's a "no" for me and other Army veterans or retirees. Army Regulation 670-1, paragraph 30-6, says that former members of the Army (including active duty, reserves, or Army National Guard), may wear medals on "appropriate" civilian clothing on Veteran’s Day, Memorial Day, and Armed Forces Day, as well as at "formal occasions of ceremony and social functions of a military nature." Appropriate civilian clothes include clothes designed for veteran and patriotic organizations, such as VFW or American Legion uniforms. You can wear either the full-size or miniature-size medals. ETA: typing along with Chief . . . Edited June 18, 2019 by CPT Trips Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquahound Posted June 18, 2019 #19 Share Posted June 18, 2019 19 hours ago, Sancho_proudfoot said: What's the view on passengers wearing their medals and/or other awards and decorations on formal nights? Tell her to do it, and do it proudly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dkjretired Posted June 18, 2019 #20 Share Posted June 18, 2019 (edited) 19 hours ago, Hlitner said: Since she earned those medals with an allied military force, I would be among the first to thank her for her service :). Hank I would too but a problem can occur if you run into someone from a non allied nation. Also, be aware of where the ship is flagged. Edited June 18, 2019 by dkjretired Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dkjretired Posted June 18, 2019 #21 Share Posted June 18, 2019 3 hours ago, VMax1700 said: Personal view - if you are in a military situation ok, but on a civilian ship in a civilian situation they have no relevance, whether formal night or not. Disagree completely, in all our sailings we have seen many military uniforms, not so much now with the relaxed dress codes. Years ago with formal dress codes very common. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SRF Posted June 18, 2019 #22 Share Posted June 18, 2019 22 hours ago, navybankerteacher said: Full size medals go with mess uniform. The whole point in miniature medals (which is what OP mentioned) is that they exist to be worn with civilian formal wear - never with uniforms. Any “reaction” from fellow passengers would be simply their exhibition of ignorance - and is best ignored. Hmm, not that I recall. Miniature ones for Mess Dress. Full sized for Full Dress uniform, such as dress whites for Navy.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted June 18, 2019 #23 Share Posted June 18, 2019 2 minutes ago, SRF said: Hmm, not that I recall. Miniature ones for Mess Dress. Full sized for Full Dress uniform, such as dress whites for Navy.. Which is what I was thinking - full sized for service dress blue or service dress white - and very few Navy officers below Commander bothered (or were expected to bother with) Mess Dress. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SRF Posted June 18, 2019 #24 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Yeah, most services have too many uniforms. 😄 That's the main reason I was Air Force (not really). 😄 The main uniform, was one, that could be worn different ways. Same pants and shirt, with or without tunic. Utilities (fatigues when I was in). Flight suits. And Mess Dress. And our Mess Dress was not that expensive. I think I paid about $200 for it in 1980. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquahound Posted June 18, 2019 #25 Share Posted June 18, 2019 5 hours ago, VMax1700 said: Personal view - if you are in a military situation ok, but on a civilian ship in a civilian situation they have no relevance, whether formal night or not. Neither do motorcycles but it doesn't stop you from using it as your photo on a cruise website. As long as it's appropriate and has relevance to the wearer, it's all that matters. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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